ghostwritten

I've known my best friend for nearly twenty years. I'd like to say I saw this coming. You'd think someone who'd known a person for such a length of time would. This is the nature of my dilemma.

If I may ask, since what age? I remain aware that (for instance) Oscar Wilde fathered two children on his wife, before his later awkwardnesses. There are other examples. People change as they age.