ghost_boy

Over the last few years, I've learned the difference between passive and submissive, at least in regards to the women I date/fool around with. On the surface, the two terms seem synonymous, but in regards to a fulfilling or enjoyable relationship, there's a world of difference, at least to me. Please keep in mind that I'm speaking in broad generalities, exaggerating for effect, and that...
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Went to the Mercury (a local goth industrial dance club) for the second night in a row tonight, both to wish a friend happy birthday (Tracy), and to hang out with another, sexier friend who hadn't made it out the night before (Becca). Both goals were met, and another one was re-asserted: with the con and the change in weather (it's been getting colder and...
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Just a note: I respect boundaries. I respect relationships. I can be flirty without crossing a line--usually.

But if you bite me, all bets are off. I'm just sayin'.

In related news: awesome time at the Merc last night, heh.

I've lived on my own now for over 10 years--ever since I moved up to Seattle for grad school. Since then I've gone from assorted apartments to owning my own condo. I can't drive due to eyesight issues, so I've mastered the bus system, and have Yellow Cab on speed dial. Happily, I also live in an area where a bunch of friends live, so...
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This has been a good couple weeks for me, in regards to opportunities to admire the female form: sexy friends and strangers all dressed up for Halloween; lithe actresses in harem outfits for a production of Arabian Nights; and then dancing at a local goth club, where several more friends were out and displayed in sexy finery. I was inspired to much flirting, which resulted...
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