SO.....have a question for all the females. If you were really unhappy in your marriage and had messed around a bit while drunk one night would you countinue on talking to the guy?
Now I know this sounds like it is me, BUT it is not. A friend (NOT ME!!!) went to a party and got smashed. He then proceded to try to pass out on a couch somewhere. When he started falling a sleep another body joined him. He didn't know which girl it was and started messing around with her. She returned the favor. Turns out the next day the girl is married and wants to countinue on talking to him. They will meet and talk when her husband is at work. It all sounds pretty fuckin bad to me. I did tell him that, but he just says that she is "nice" to talk too. She will tell him how unhappy she is with her husband. How they haven't had sex in a while and how much she "loves" to be around him. I feel bad for the poor guy because there is a feeling like he is actually starting to care for her.
Totally sounds like a really, really, really bad idea all the way around and I told him that. What the hell do I know though. Just hate to see a friend get hurt when she decides to stay with her husband if they work things out. On the other hand I told him not to be "that guy". That guy means the guy who messes around with someones wife.
Must admit the whole thing is interesting to watch because I have never and will never be in that situation. Situation of "that guy" THAT is.
Only thing today and some feed back would be cool.
Thanks and enjoy the weather the next couple of days.....70's!!!!!
Now I know this sounds like it is me, BUT it is not. A friend (NOT ME!!!) went to a party and got smashed. He then proceded to try to pass out on a couch somewhere. When he started falling a sleep another body joined him. He didn't know which girl it was and started messing around with her. She returned the favor. Turns out the next day the girl is married and wants to countinue on talking to him. They will meet and talk when her husband is at work. It all sounds pretty fuckin bad to me. I did tell him that, but he just says that she is "nice" to talk too. She will tell him how unhappy she is with her husband. How they haven't had sex in a while and how much she "loves" to be around him. I feel bad for the poor guy because there is a feeling like he is actually starting to care for her.
Totally sounds like a really, really, really bad idea all the way around and I told him that. What the hell do I know though. Just hate to see a friend get hurt when she decides to stay with her husband if they work things out. On the other hand I told him not to be "that guy". That guy means the guy who messes around with someones wife.
Must admit the whole thing is interesting to watch because I have never and will never be in that situation. Situation of "that guy" THAT is.
Only thing today and some feed back would be cool.
Thanks and enjoy the weather the next couple of days.....70's!!!!!
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i'm having some similiar friend drama, too. but yknow, i just keep my mouth shut.