Things I've learned in the past 24 hours.
a) josh is cool.
b) sunburns suck big time!!!
c) I am not responsible for someone else's feelings or actions or treatment.
d) I am responsible for how I react to said feelings/actions/treatment.
e) I am responsible for my own feelings/actions and treatment of others.
f) Taking care of one's self is of the upmost importance.
g) Friends aren't responsible for your life. Don't ask them to be.
h) It isn't nice or fair to over burden other's with your issues.
i) Do not let yourself be overburdened lest you become bitter and angry.
j) Friendships aren't power plays. If they are, it's unhealthy, get out of them.
k) There is nothing wrong with not being able to handle some else's issues.
l) When they make their bed, let them lie in it.
m) Lie in your own bed.
n) Feel not sorry for some else's choices.
o) Make good choices foryour self for you will be dealing with it. (see #F)
p) reiteration: friendship isn't a political power play.
Q) nor is it a sadistic emotional battering/punching bag.
r) People are fucked up big time, but then again, so are you.
s) everyone has issues, you just think they don't.
t) Care about people regardless,
u) don't let them walk on you.
I know I reiterated a few things, but I learned all of that last night and very sharply.
a) josh is cool.
b) sunburns suck big time!!!
c) I am not responsible for someone else's feelings or actions or treatment.
d) I am responsible for how I react to said feelings/actions/treatment.
e) I am responsible for my own feelings/actions and treatment of others.
f) Taking care of one's self is of the upmost importance.
g) Friends aren't responsible for your life. Don't ask them to be.
h) It isn't nice or fair to over burden other's with your issues.
i) Do not let yourself be overburdened lest you become bitter and angry.
j) Friendships aren't power plays. If they are, it's unhealthy, get out of them.
k) There is nothing wrong with not being able to handle some else's issues.
l) When they make their bed, let them lie in it.
m) Lie in your own bed.
n) Feel not sorry for some else's choices.
o) Make good choices foryour self for you will be dealing with it. (see #F)
p) reiteration: friendship isn't a political power play.
Q) nor is it a sadistic emotional battering/punching bag.
r) People are fucked up big time, but then again, so are you.
s) everyone has issues, you just think they don't.
t) Care about people regardless,
u) don't let them walk on you.
I know I reiterated a few things, but I learned all of that last night and very sharply.
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something tells me you are trying to rationalize something, but i could be wrong, liek most other things..
you knwo what is going to be so cool, when we are old...jsut think of all the wisdom learned....i wish i was able to pick my grandfathers brain more, too bad i was so young to really appreciate his knowledge before he passed away.....
some old people are pretty cool like that
brave the storm!!
[Edited on Sep 12, 2004 4:55PM]
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a little explanation of process, someone asked, and I thought of ya'll...
It's fun, simple, easy, endless, and "historique de artsy"
For my artsy friends, if they feel like a project....
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