Hi dad, how are you? I hope you're well and had a good birthday. Did you like the Bears "card" I sent you? This is a message for both you and mom, so make sure she reads this as... Read More
You might be tempted to make full disclosure to your dad at an emotional moment (or not, I don't know you). It is probably an emotional burden for your to keep this secret, and an angry conversation might lead you to reveal the truth in the heat of the moment. Doing that would underscore just how much keeping this secret has made you unhappy, which might put some pressure on your dad to accept it.
But I would avoid that for as long as possible, and try to build your case.
I don't know why I keep thinking about your situation. I'm sorry.
But now that I think about it, you probably told your Dad about points 2-5 as a kind of distraction from point #1. Point number one was the thing that really matters to you, but by adding points 2-5 (swearing, the tattoo, smoking pot, etc.), you have presented the letter as a general confession, when it is really about point number one (not that I am denying that your parents would also disapprove of points 2-5). It is to stop Dad from speculating about point number one too much, and so that your letter could come across as plausibly just a general confession of relatively minor sins. If you had just written point number one, Dad would REALLY suspect you are stripping a lot, but with points 2-5 tacked on at the end, he probably just suspects it somewhat.
I actually think your letter is kind of brilliant really. Hope I haven't offended, but again, I find what you did terribly fascinating. Why does no one else find this letter fascinating? Where are all the other long analyses of your letter? Get with it people!
I'm so horny right now it hurts. Hurts so good, haha.
Oh, and btw....I said it was a secret for a reason!!
I've started therapy. The lady I'm seeing is very cool, she's hip to the whole quantum physics things. We have lots of interesting things to talk about.
I've decided I'm going to move out. I still love my boyfriend, but I'm tired of... Read More
the books = good stuff. your comment made me play some. funny, i'm listening to music for a french elevator and they have a song called "of the word god"
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mind if i ask what you're going to therapy for?
you'll love it when you move out.. i've lived with a lot of people and it just gets old.
oh what is this exciting secret? it can't be that you are your doopleganger that is running around ann arbor is it?! and if you are i have already been out'd !!!!!
I've had a very frustrating past 2 weeks....our old roomie Matt moved in because his dad passed away, (who he was living with,) work has been shitty and I'm falling behind in 2 of my classes because of some software complications. Oy vey. I've been a ball of stress lately. My shoulders are so tight they're touching my ears. And I can't find pot anywhere!... Read More
Jesus fucking christ. This country is going to shit.
I'll bet you $100 that Bush declares martial law and suspends the elections, and we fall into a totalitarian dictatorship.
And even though that would suck balls, I'm really not too excited about either candidate anyway, so I feel fucked either way. McCain and Obama are both full of shit, spewing the same BS over and... Read More
ps. the urge to kill is growing, literally. I honestly feel like Im going insane when I listen to these retarded "leaders" or rather the ppl who are in charge. what pisses me off the most are 2 things:
1. the founding fathers (ppl who would probably haev been very religious) told us to seperate church and state when it came to elections, and sooooooooo many assholes have gone completely the other way at this point
2. "a government should be afraid of its people, people should not be afraid of their government" WHERE THE FUCK DID THIS GO? and how did people lose sight of it? Infuriating.
You might be tempted to make full disclosure to your dad at an emotional moment (or not, I don't know you). It is probably an emotional burden for your to keep this secret, and an angry conversation might lead you to reveal the truth in the heat of the moment. Doing that would underscore just how much keeping this secret has made you unhappy, which might put some pressure on your dad to accept it.
But I would avoid that for as long as possible, and try to build your case.
But now that I think about it, you probably told your Dad about points 2-5 as a kind of distraction from point #1. Point number one was the thing that really matters to you, but by adding points 2-5 (swearing, the tattoo, smoking pot, etc.), you have presented the letter as a general confession, when it is really about point number one (not that I am denying that your parents would also disapprove of points 2-5). It is to stop Dad from speculating about point number one too much, and so that your letter could come across as plausibly just a general confession of relatively minor sins. If you had just written point number one, Dad would REALLY suspect you are stripping a lot, but with points 2-5 tacked on at the end, he probably just suspects it somewhat.
I actually think your letter is kind of brilliant really. Hope I haven't offended, but again, I find what you did terribly fascinating. Why does no one else find this letter fascinating? Where are all the other long analyses of your letter? Get with it people!