There is one thing I would never do again, and I wasn't sure whether to write about it or not, but after seeing @roo_morgue 's blog post I thought Id share my experience on the dreaded.... THREESOMES!
I think everyone somewhere In their lives are curious about threesomes, And why wouldn't you be, they look hot & exciting and risky..
Well my first MFF, Threesome was years ago with my boyfriend at the time and one of his 'girl friends' The night was going great, we'd been drinking at another girls house, having a laugh blah blah, we'd had a bit too much to drink started talking about the usual subject SEX, and one thing led to another, we were upstairs and in bed -.- Baring in mind Id only met the chick that day, we seemed to get on well, then it just hit me, my boyfriend was having sex with another girl, whilst I watched! This didn't seem fun to me, it didn't seem exciting, I felt sick.. They were having the time of their lives whilst I did nothing! I didn't stay long before I went back downstairs and waited. I expected my boyfriend to come down and ask me if I was ok, but NO, he continued the 'threesome'
Tbh I dont really know what happened after that I remember going home, never seeing the girl again & our relationship just wasn't the same anymore; we broke up not long after. I found out a few days later from the girl whose party it was, that they had actually been sleeping together for awhile, and were still doing so -.-
My second Threesome experience (stupid I know) was a MMF, and it was BORING! When I have sex 'make love' I need to have an emotional connection with the person, and during this I didn't have a connection to myself let alone anyone else. Me and the girls had been out drinking, I was single but not really looking for anything, Id had enough of men, haha, But we got drinking, it got late, the girls went out for a smoke, which I dont do so I stayed in the club, a guy tried hitting on me which I didn't like, so I hid in the corner where I saw a guy I knew through a friend, I pretended to dance with him so this other bloke disappeared. One thing led to another and the guy & his friend were back with me and my friends at her place. She was supposed to have one guy and me the other (sad I know) but she feel asleep -.- I was wasted and me being the nice person didn't wont the guy left out, I could tell it was their first Threesome, as they kept high five'in and saying 'yes man' & making jokes to each other! I got that bored I kicked them out!
So my advice on threesome's is don't do them if you love someone & DO NOT DRINK BEFOREHAND! They were genuinely the biggest mistakes I made, I wouldn't do another one, even though my BF is up for it, I couldn't watch him with another woman! It killed me the first time, it certainly would again! They work for some but I'm obviously not a Threesome/sharing kind of gal.
@rambo @missy @lyxzen
