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UPDATE: Found my cat Munchkin biggrin

She was sitting on our front porch last night at 10pm. She was outside for 4 days...and thankfully our other cat tracked her down and brought her home.

+1 to this week. I needed that one.
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mutantbaby1:
smile
cadavre:
YAY!!!!!! Good siblings brought her home!
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mutantbaby1:
frown
cadavre:
hope she comes home!!!
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strongbhoy:
I have no idea who the fuck that is.

drrn:
She's cute. Her music is catchy but those lyrics are hilariously dumb.
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drrn:
I'm with Cadavre... that face is a train wreck.
strongbhoy:
I guarantee you there is a Mickey Rourke (minus the boxing and being a bad ass) story behind that face.
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I've noticed a continuing trend, and I've unfortunately witnessed it like 3-4 times this week alone. Once at a pharmacy, once at a doctors office, once at a restaurant, and once in a grocery store.

People are turning into fucking dickheads. Literally. Acting like their time is more important than anyone elses, acting like everything is an inconvenience, complaining about service, etc.

Seriously? Get the...
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strongbhoy:
This trend has been building for years, but it depends where you go. Here, people are genuinely nice, if they aren't they are passive aggressive, which you won't have to deal with in a day to day basis because most of the interactions aren't long term.

The Midwest, especially upper Midwest has always seemingly been a haven for the polite, but even here, as you witnessed at the WCHA Final Five with me, that's not always the case (though sports and politics turn people into different animals haha).

You've got to pick and choose battles, but as corny as it sounds that goofy commercial they have on TV with the "Values: Pass it on" where the old lady walks the kid across the street and other see and and do something (there is an insurance one as well) that's usually how that kind of stuff works.

So I always go out of the way, sometimes to my detriment to be polite and nice, but you know when you are polite and that makes some people uncomfortable that society has shifted (also the whole miss/ma'am bit in the North is a bit annoying, but you just adjust and learn as you go).

It was funny though, I when I was at I think Wild/Kings, a kid ran by me and said "excuse me", I almost wanted to stop him and say "Good job boyo, being respectful will take you far in life and open more doors than you think as well as make people respect you" and then high five his parents for not sucking complete ass.

Some people get away with murder these days, entitlement, or just in general lack of respect for people or whatever else.

Don't let it get you down, just keep plugging away and make sure if and when you get a chance to reward it, you do and if you get a big situation you call them out on it.

Also---Chrysis it sounds like the people you work with are just assholes. My Mom used to complain about all the gossipy annoying types at her work. You just need to find a good outlet to vent that shit out, crying can purge it in ways, but in the end you'll still probably feel the same unless you are proactive about it.
cadavre:
It's horribly common here. The husband actually got to yell at a rude driver and the dickhead responded with "Well I have somewhere to be"...yeah..that was the actual response.......
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I have this overwhelming feeling that I have something important to do today...

Problem is, I have no clue what it was. Maybe I'm making it up.

Hopefully I'll find out before said event if that be the case tongue
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strongbhoy:
It was to put the Drive chip tune remix via a Sega Genesis onto your MP3 player.
cadavre:
Thanks hun. I kind of don't want to face them in a few weeks...but I'll shut down any conversations they want to have about it. It's mother's day for fuck's sake.

Isn't it!?!?! I have GOT to get my airfare lined up
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Sucking up my pride seems to be a continuing trend lately.

Went to my doctor today, explained my ever growing anxiety issues as of late.

Got referred to some psychiatrists. Will be looking into them.

I know it will help, so I just gotta make myself do it. Also got a temporary script of Xanax if it takes too long for them to get me...
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cadavre:
+hugs+
strongbhoy:
Nah mate, it's harder to admit when you need to reach out then when you don't.

Believe me, it would be easy for me to just give into my Irish genes and push all this shit deeper and find horrible outlets for things, than to work on it in a positive manner. We've seen how that's worked out so far.

The stoic man as the basis for manliness is bullshit. It's a myth right up there with the pantheon of gods.

In these types of cases I'd agree with your point of wishing to be born in a different era, as these problems may not exist (like cancer wasn't nearly as prevalent, because by now both of us might be dead if born during a certain time in history), but this stuff is way more prevalent then people would like to let on.

Some look at it as a weakness. You need to look at dealing with this as a strength. It's like the wrestling slogan "pain is a weakness leaving the body", being able to open up and go after this shit guns a blazin is doing that same shit. It makes you stronger.

Always remember that.
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...and why the fuck couldn't I find this out when it happened...?

GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK!

I said I felt like I was waiting for "the next issue" to arise, you looked me in the face and said there is nothing else...and then BOOM!

Bombshell.

Fuck...my...life...
strongbhoy:
If you need to talk, let me know lillebror.
cadavre:
Oh hun, whatever you're going through, I'm sorry. +hugs+ hope you can catch a break
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...and that's about all I can handle for now.

Doctor appointment scheduled for Friday at 11:20am. I fucking wish he could have gotten me in sooner, but that's never how my luck usually works out.
strongbhoy:
It's good you are moving on it though, that's the key.

Also, you can grow a beard. Deep within those Polish-Australian bloodlines there is some Viking.

Oh, and something I forgot to mention when we last talked. If your squad matches up with the Kings in the playoffs, punch Dustin Brown in the fucking mouth.
hanke:
lovgin your hair!
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Extremely Numb.

Extremely anxiety ridden.

Extremely fucked in the head at the moment.
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cadavre:
sorry hun...
chrysis:
Regarding the blog, well. :////////////////

Regarding the comment -- yep! Saturday and Sunday.