Hi all was thinking of doing a regular blog called 'Monday Moan' as i am a grumpy old man with lots to moan about. If too many of you get fed up with this i may stop or just write a blog moaning about it. Some like todays will be serious moans but othere will be more light hearted 🤣🤣
First moan is how a man is often judged by the Job he does, the car he drives, the house he owns etc. If a man does not work, lives alone or god forbid with his parents, and doesnt have a car then he is often refered to as a 'bum' 'waster' and my least favorite 'scrub ' 😠 one of my fave band TLC do a really catchy song called 'scrub' but the lyrics really annoy me with like '
If you don't have a car and you're walking
Oh yes son, I'm talking to you
If you live at home with your mommaOh yes son, I'm talking to you
And
Wanna get me with no money
Oh no, I don't want noNo scrub, no scrub
No scrub, no scrub
As most of you know i am disabled, unable to work, unable to drive , live with my parents and live on benefits but still consider myself a 'real' man and not a 'scrub'! Yes if a man chooses not to work when he is able, can drive but relieson others, lives with parents because he likes being mothered then he can be discribed as a 'Scrub' !! I hate going to a socail gathering and being asked what do is your job?, what car you got? Etc as these things do not define me! When i worked, had a wife, rented a nice house and rode a moped i was not happy as i was in a marraige with someone i was not in love with and who lied and cheated, was belittled at work ☹
Now i am unable to work due to my health but would gladly swap the constant pain for a 60 hour week, live with my parents as it is easier and like spending time with them but still have my independence, i am single but do get lonely and still believe i will one day find miss or mister right and fall in love!! My worth as a man shoukd not be judged by material things such as job, car etc.
Rant over thanks for listening❤