desiredtragedy_

It's always important for someone to think of us on our birthday. My family and I try to ignore mine every year for persoanl reasons. But I want others to know that they aren't forgotten.

<3 Make sure you have fun!

Maybe I will...lol what is there to do up there... I love seafood and I know they got some good stuff up there!

Damn! Honey, you've been through enough shit lately, judging from your journal entries in the short time you've been a member, that at your age you must be overwhelmed. I'm an old fuck and though still insatiable, have endured enough I'm somewhat unfazable (if that's a word, and if it's not, I don't care, because I used it and I, of course, am the alpha and omega of vocabulary *pauses to choke on own ludicrous Barcardiated flailing attempt at humour*) that you must feel like you're caught in a giant whirlpool.

I'd just like to say it gets better as time goes on.

But I'd be lying

Seriously, welcome to SG. I can relate to your latest post. My fuck buddy moved away and is not around this weekend and my exwife who lives with a dude with money but wants me for sex I've finally been refusing is seeming pretty tempting right now, and tother women that for various reasons would be karmically challenging for various reasons are as well. I*'m even considering going out and playing a set of music somewhere to pick up some chick who's into performers, but I aways try to AVOID the groupie complex kind of thing. It's been toolong, but my point is, you can hold out. If you want something casual, make damn sure you both are CERTAIN it will remain so, and just don't do anything stupid.

And there's not a thing wrong with fucking yourself.

BTW, don't feel pressured to post pics of yourself in PSW, but at the same time, don't be scared. You have sucha beautiful face, and from your profile pic, I'd bet you're expressive enough to have been in silent movies, and that's hot. AND . . .I think you'll find a very positive energy coming from the group. We have our moments of course; we're human (mostly), but we're also very supposrtive of beauty for what it really is, not what soap operas and clothing ads tell us it is.

I see Nickelback's number 1 on your top ten - I just worked out a solo acoustic arrangement for Mistake, since my band's disbanding after we finish our debut/farewell album. I play out a lot solo when I'm not playing with a band. I like to think I suck equally with or without a band and at all kinds of music. No rules. Anarchy in music!!!!! As Bob Dylan once said when asked about why he started playing folk rock (he siad somehting like this) "I don't play folk rock." Then what do you consider yourself?" "I'm a song and dance man." Again, no rules.