Can someone please tell me why when a girl decides to go away and be with some other guy they really really want to stay friends. and then they tell you that you're not ready to be just friends with them so to "go away" until you're ready. And what if you just get completely past the thought of them all together then they suddenly re-appear all i miss you and stuff. all i can say is she should have thought of that before getting engaged to the marine she'd only known for two weeks. now she's all loney becuase her marine is in japan when she could have still had all kinds of love not even 20 minutes away. she broke my heart and still wants to be friends...can anyone tell me why?