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Biopsy results came in yesterday. There doesn't seem to be anything we can do for Grandma except make her comfortable. The oncologist said to expect it to be rapid. I'm scared, and I hate this. I feel like I don't know how to be helpful or useful or supportive of my family. I just keep visiting & hanging around.

Also, my best friend's bridal shower...
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rizzo:
frown I'm sorry boo
throttlebitch:
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My grandmother has been very ill.

Story under the spoiler because I know it can be difficult for people to read about.

SPOILERS! (Click to view)

Nearly 2 weeks ago, I got a call from my dad. He rarely calls. We talk because I call.

Grandma was on vacation with my mom at my aunt & uncle's summer home in Canada, and she was extremely...
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bill_the_cat:
You're welcome.
I'm seriously considering a West coast trip sometime this winter, in which case you can look forward to a hand-delivered hug.
laceyk:
I am so sorry to hear about all you are going through.
I have no advice since I am in a similar situation as you, wherein I have not yet lost anyone as an adult.
I am happy that you are making the most of your time together. Your uncle may find that he regrets not doing the same.
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Tonight at the bar, it was stuffy so I stepped out to the patio where people were smoking. Now my hair smells like cigarettes and it really bugs me. Weird that eight years ago I used to inhale that shit & have no problem with it.
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throttlebitch:
I think you're wonderful. Just wanted to remind you.
throttlebitch:
Get your dickwhore stuff out of my mudroom
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Scorpio:
You're in the middle of a situation that doesn't seem to offer you a winnable option. If you find a way to give in without giving up ground, you can come out ahead in the very long run.
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Wow. It got worse. I mean, I made it worse. Ugh. I'm overwhelmed. frown
otoki:
If you need to talk, you have my number.
thefuckoffkid:
*hug*
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the sous chef at my restaurant made me the most filling dinner tonight. I totally want to curl up & take a nap.
jonnytrrrash7:
mmmmm food!
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batten down the hatches & hide your women, Seattle- ThrottleBitch & I are headed your way! kiss
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boxofficepoison:
It's alright, I'm heading down to SF end of the month anyway. We should get drinks.
merritt:
It was really great meeting you last night! That sucks about the peanuts!
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Still hurting in my noggin, but semi-functional today.

I'm leaving a ton of my groups on here, and giving away some of the ones I own. Does someone have the time to make US Elections a more active group? I love it, but am never on here these days.

A lot of people I love are going through big things in their lives. I am...
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lemonkid:
Paris in 4 days!
jonnytrrrash7:
I've finally relaxed into fun-employment! It's a little odd not having a job to go to.

Can't remember if i recommended acupuncture for your headaches?
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so.... apparently I am now officially "prone to migraines". just wondering, how do people deal with them & hold down a job? swear I'm gonna get fired if these don't let up soon. my head has hurt for 21 of the past 30 days!
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jonnytrrrash7:
when i start to see flashing spots i have to chow and excedrin and a half, otherwish i'm fucked.