I talked to my therapist about the dating situation. And she said that my standards aren't high enough.
Which is a direct result of everyone telling me, my entire life, that my standards are too high, and if I want to meet someone, I will compromise.
I always figured my standards *were* really fucking high, and unrealistic, until she told me they are just the opposite.
So who the fuck is in my dating pool now? Jhonen Vasquez? Jimmy Urine? Trent Reznor? Miyavi?!
I never really see those guys around.
Curi.
Which is a direct result of everyone telling me, my entire life, that my standards are too high, and if I want to meet someone, I will compromise.
I always figured my standards *were* really fucking high, and unrealistic, until she told me they are just the opposite.
So who the fuck is in my dating pool now? Jhonen Vasquez? Jimmy Urine? Trent Reznor? Miyavi?!
I never really see those guys around.
Curi.
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I say stick to the basics: mutual respect, honesty, mutual attraction/chemistry/compatibility.