i am so fucking MAD. 
My father, the man that is meant to look after me and take care of me, is fucking BILLING ME for his time.
He drove a van up so that I could have all my stuff moved. He rented it for me and drove a good 500 miles. I know thats expensive, but I said to him, look, moving has made me broke, so I'll give you 50 quid, thats the best I can do.
Apparantly thats not enough for him. He just sent me a bill in the post ITEMISED no less, that looks like this:
Rent for the period until you left: 50
Holiday owed: 20
DS charge: 20
Van Hire: 73.50
Fuel: 138.89
Total: 300.00
Less Paid: 50
Amount Outstanding: 250.
what part of I'M FUCKING BROKE does he not understand? I thought your parents were meant to do things like this for you, your first home, at uni, etc etc. God fucking help me if I ever get married.
I never ask for anything from him, he never gave me money at uni or at home, I have been self sufficient for over 5 years, sometimes going hungry so I can pay my rent, and the ONE TIME i ask for this, ONCE, he wants every penny back.
It's not like he even needs the money desperately.
I have no idea how I am going to pay him. I have 300 coming in next week, 250 in the bank. My rents 510. that means I have 40 fucking quid to last til next fucking payday.
Fuck.
I want to ask all my friends to donate a pound to me so I can give him something... can anyone spare a pound? I'll pay you back in pictures and emails and love?!
I really feel so distant from my parents sometimes. I love them unconditionally, but I don't understand their worldview; they're so stiff upper lip and incredibly money orientated. (For example, my father once told me that my depression and CFS wasn't a "real" illness and I just needed to get a job).
My father, the man that is meant to look after me and take care of me, is fucking BILLING ME for his time.
He drove a van up so that I could have all my stuff moved. He rented it for me and drove a good 500 miles. I know thats expensive, but I said to him, look, moving has made me broke, so I'll give you 50 quid, thats the best I can do.
Apparantly thats not enough for him. He just sent me a bill in the post ITEMISED no less, that looks like this:
Rent for the period until you left: 50
Holiday owed: 20
DS charge: 20
Van Hire: 73.50
Fuel: 138.89
Total: 300.00
Less Paid: 50
Amount Outstanding: 250.
what part of I'M FUCKING BROKE does he not understand? I thought your parents were meant to do things like this for you, your first home, at uni, etc etc. God fucking help me if I ever get married.
I never ask for anything from him, he never gave me money at uni or at home, I have been self sufficient for over 5 years, sometimes going hungry so I can pay my rent, and the ONE TIME i ask for this, ONCE, he wants every penny back.
It's not like he even needs the money desperately.
I have no idea how I am going to pay him. I have 300 coming in next week, 250 in the bank. My rents 510. that means I have 40 fucking quid to last til next fucking payday.
Fuck.
I want to ask all my friends to donate a pound to me so I can give him something... can anyone spare a pound? I'll pay you back in pictures and emails and love?!
I really feel so distant from my parents sometimes. I love them unconditionally, but I don't understand their worldview; they're so stiff upper lip and incredibly money orientated. (For example, my father once told me that my depression and CFS wasn't a "real" illness and I just needed to get a job).
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Your dad sucks