Stages of Arousal (purely personal) in terms of Visual experience only (a first attempt at explicating the Male Gaze/Female Pose from one man's perspective):
Attraction: A fluttering in my groin as I pass by/encounter/view photos of a woman who registers as cute, adorable, beautiful, smoldering, powerful, commanding. Feeling: pleasure in the beauty of humanity.
Engagement: My cock starts to quiver as the viewed woman responds with mild teasing/strutting/a smile/a haughty presence. Feeling: intrigue, wonder.
Titillation: Active flirting or flaunting with my response the beginnings of an erection. Feeling: surprise, getting hooked.
Provocation: She: Open teasing/removal of clothing/taunting stare/smoldering striptease/focused, intentful power. Me: Falling under a spell, the welcome escape from control, being carried away, awakening, cock rises to the occasion. Feeling: beginning to surrender.
Seduction: Full, active, purposeful intent to arouse. Unveiling of the arsenal. Response: full erection. Feeling: pure lust.
Torture: Teasing and denial, provocation and look-don't-touch power. Full female power game. Response: Loss of control, mild irritation shrouded by intense pleasure. Feeling: the special buzz of being dominated, overpowered.
Extreme provocation: The female, now fully in control, smirks and says: Just watch, you can do nothing more. And then she ups the ante, touches or feigns touching, simulates a sexual act of position, taunts, tortures. Response: Great trembling, feeling of wanting to utterly surrender, becoming overpowered, the urge to cum. Feeling: Utter wonder, immersion. Example: Slide's set, pics 34-38.
Repeat cycle for best results.
This is just an initial effort to put into words how I respond. Plenty of refinement could be added. I hope the joy comes through. I love being a man when I respond to the women on this site who enjoy playing with some of these stages/motifs/poses.
Attraction: A fluttering in my groin as I pass by/encounter/view photos of a woman who registers as cute, adorable, beautiful, smoldering, powerful, commanding. Feeling: pleasure in the beauty of humanity.
Engagement: My cock starts to quiver as the viewed woman responds with mild teasing/strutting/a smile/a haughty presence. Feeling: intrigue, wonder.
Titillation: Active flirting or flaunting with my response the beginnings of an erection. Feeling: surprise, getting hooked.
Provocation: She: Open teasing/removal of clothing/taunting stare/smoldering striptease/focused, intentful power. Me: Falling under a spell, the welcome escape from control, being carried away, awakening, cock rises to the occasion. Feeling: beginning to surrender.
Seduction: Full, active, purposeful intent to arouse. Unveiling of the arsenal. Response: full erection. Feeling: pure lust.
Torture: Teasing and denial, provocation and look-don't-touch power. Full female power game. Response: Loss of control, mild irritation shrouded by intense pleasure. Feeling: the special buzz of being dominated, overpowered.
Extreme provocation: The female, now fully in control, smirks and says: Just watch, you can do nothing more. And then she ups the ante, touches or feigns touching, simulates a sexual act of position, taunts, tortures. Response: Great trembling, feeling of wanting to utterly surrender, becoming overpowered, the urge to cum. Feeling: Utter wonder, immersion. Example: Slide's set, pics 34-38.
Repeat cycle for best results.
This is just an initial effort to put into words how I respond. Plenty of refinement could be added. I hope the joy comes through. I love being a man when I respond to the women on this site who enjoy playing with some of these stages/motifs/poses.
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