I hate being a rebound. 
I finally went out with the guys and we ended up going to our usual bar. We ended up talking to these 2 girls that sat at the table next to us. I started talking more to one of them. Everything was going fine throughout the night. I miss that feeling of having and being with someone who you can share your good times with. We were holding hands, the whole nine yards, drinking, laughing, signing along with the cover band and just having a good time. We hit it off great. I ended up going home with her.
I know I sound stupid saying all this cuz of the fact that I just met her. But throw that out the window and it's just the euphoria of being in relationship. I'm tired of being single. I've been single for 2 yrs.
Having someone that you can share your best moments with....I'm trying to explain this the best I can, but the words just won't come out. I'm sure you all understand what I'm trying to say.
I was txting her the next day and found out that she had just got out of a 3 yr relationship and that I pretty much ended up being a rebound. She apologized for leading me on. But she said she would still like to be friends. Which I said was fine. I like the fact that she came up and told me. It's more than some girls would do when they find a rebound. At least that way it wasn't dragged out longer than it would of.
That night fucked me up. I was doing fine but being in that situation made me forget about everything, my troubles, work...I mean everything. But the next day it made me think a lot too. I guess the only thing I can do is just be friends and see were it goes.
*SIGH*
I finally went out with the guys and we ended up going to our usual bar. We ended up talking to these 2 girls that sat at the table next to us. I started talking more to one of them. Everything was going fine throughout the night. I miss that feeling of having and being with someone who you can share your good times with. We were holding hands, the whole nine yards, drinking, laughing, signing along with the cover band and just having a good time. We hit it off great. I ended up going home with her.
I know I sound stupid saying all this cuz of the fact that I just met her. But throw that out the window and it's just the euphoria of being in relationship. I'm tired of being single. I've been single for 2 yrs.
Having someone that you can share your best moments with....I'm trying to explain this the best I can, but the words just won't come out. I'm sure you all understand what I'm trying to say.
I was txting her the next day and found out that she had just got out of a 3 yr relationship and that I pretty much ended up being a rebound. She apologized for leading me on. But she said she would still like to be friends. Which I said was fine. I like the fact that she came up and told me. It's more than some girls would do when they find a rebound. At least that way it wasn't dragged out longer than it would of.
That night fucked me up. I was doing fine but being in that situation made me forget about everything, my troubles, work...I mean everything. But the next day it made me think a lot too. I guess the only thing I can do is just be friends and see were it goes.
*SIGH*
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palcode:
forget about her bro!! she's just a bitch!
pixiebelle:
Sounds like it was a pretty rough experience bu try not to be too disheartened. Take from that night the little joyful moments you so needed and look at it that it was a picker upper for a night. Sounds crap but it's better long term than seeing it as a completely bad experience. Good that she did tell you, even though a little too late.