Today, I received an order from the DFS to begin making child support payments through their agency rather than directly to my ex-wife and her husband. This is fine with me, but now they must wait until my check has gone through the mail and been processed by the DFS before they get their payment. In other words, they're most likely to get the money...
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Them: We want you to do everything detailed in the original custody agreement until a judge tells us otherwise.
Me: Are you also going to do what it says?
Them: No.
Me: Really?
Them: We need to go back and re-read it.
"...but we're unwilling to compromise on any of our demands."
What, then, do you expect to mediate?
Thank all the deities for theater, because if I weren't directing a show and having such an amazing experience doing that, my life would just be so shitty right now.
My ex- has started in with the character assassination on social media, her husband questioned my authority as primary parent to my son, I had to pay a plumber $150 to snake a toilet, and...
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I know how this works. In order to get the moral victory (if not the legal one), you have to prove that your adversary is the horrible, awful person you want everyone to believe he is. And because you know he's not, you have to provoke him. You have to say the most outrageous shit to him. You have to challenge him at every turn....
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And for a variety of reasons, today ended up being the day I told her that I'll be filing a motion to amend the custody arrangement.
She had all day to consider, but finally she couldn't resist the temptation to say something shitty:
"Happy wedding anniversary. You've broken my heart and our family."
I haven't had sex in over two years. For various reasons. One, I haven't really connected with anyone in a sexual sense in that long. Two, I have some health issues that make erections challenging. Three, the second thing has a huge affect on the first thing. But, four, I'm getting older and finding that I enjoy just interacting with other people without the back...
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It has come to me through alternate channels that my son's mother and her husband are planning on taking me to court over custody of my son. After I thought everything had been settled, apparently it was a ruse to lull me into complacency so they could take the offensive. Despite my continued insistence that I only want a happy positive relationship between my son...
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