topaz:
I think, if you still have a desire to be a part of the SG community, you can. I'm serious. If your interested, you just need to post post post. I would recommend not e-mail girls like you did with me. I appreciated it, but it creeps some girls out. Find any group or newswire thread that you find even remotely interesting, and add to the group discussion in a helpful way. And finally, post in everyones journal as thoughtfully as the way in which you post in mine. If your done w/ SG, I understand, but I don't think you've given it a fair chance yet!