For the most part, my life is pretty free of drama. I like to keep it that way. I don't give people a reason to create it with me, and I do my best to avoid dramatic situations. I guess that's probably why people respect me a lot, I don't screw around, I don't try to do backhanded things, I don't practice revenge, none of that.
Granted yes, if you wrong me, I'll let you know, but I'm not the type of person to cause trouble for my friends, or even for my enemies (there was one instance of that, but I'll get into that at another time). So its been a good year or two since I've had any kind of real drama, since I've had to get really mad about something. It was a good run, but it all came to a grinding halt last night.
My friend Andy's ex-girlfriend shows up at this show I was at last night at this cool wine bar here in town. First off, I'm not much of a wine drinker, but because I like to support local music and my friends, I went down there and hung out, ate cheese, and drank merlots and cabernets. Okay, so anyway I hadn't seen her for quite some time, since her breakup with Andy was pretty ugly and she's kind of a drama queen. Well things seemed to be going all right, she was having a good time and all that, then suddenly things took a sharp turn.
Dierdre (I'm going to name names here because I'm sure no one in my regular group of non-online friends are members here) starts buying me beers. That's all well and good, someone wants to buy me a drink, I'll drink it. I don't look a gift horse in the mouth. After about 3 beers, suddenly she starts to try to kiss me. After the first try when I politely shyed away, she was more forceful grabbing me and shoving her tongue in my mouth and stuff. I tried to take the nice guy route and tell her that this isn't the time or the place for that kind of thing, and then she plops down on my lap and I had to forcefully tell her to stop. After this she keeps pawing at me for a bit, and I told her straight up that I'm not going to play her game and sit around and listen to her make fun of my friend while she tries to get it on with me. So I shoved her off and told her that she needed to quit, then of course came the crying and blabbering and blah blah blah.
I've seen that all before, so it pretty much didn't phase me at all, and I walked right out the door before I could get sucked into it any more, because I could tell for sure that a big ugly situation was about to unfold. It really sucks when someone else's idiocy or need for constant approval and love and affection gets in the way of my having a good time. I still have trouble imagining how Andy dated this girl for so long, although she does seem to be pretty naughty, that's not worth all of the stress and pissed-offness that would come along with it. I also don't find her the least bit attractive.
Of course, after all that I needed a drink or six, so I walked a few blocks down to the Tavern, and while I was having a PBR pounder ($2, you can't go wrong), the bartender, who's probably not only the best bartender I know, but also very cool and a very very sexy girl invites me to come see this Led Zeppelin tribute band at the bar right by her house on saturday, I told her that I'm hesitant to do that because its out of cab territory and I'm not taking any risks driving. So what's she say? She just invites me to stay at her house and offers to drive me to and from the bar.
I think I'm going to have to marry her. hahahahahahaha
So yeah, that was my night, the first time I went out on a weeknight in a long time, and holy shit was it crazy (well, the first part at least).
Granted yes, if you wrong me, I'll let you know, but I'm not the type of person to cause trouble for my friends, or even for my enemies (there was one instance of that, but I'll get into that at another time). So its been a good year or two since I've had any kind of real drama, since I've had to get really mad about something. It was a good run, but it all came to a grinding halt last night.
My friend Andy's ex-girlfriend shows up at this show I was at last night at this cool wine bar here in town. First off, I'm not much of a wine drinker, but because I like to support local music and my friends, I went down there and hung out, ate cheese, and drank merlots and cabernets. Okay, so anyway I hadn't seen her for quite some time, since her breakup with Andy was pretty ugly and she's kind of a drama queen. Well things seemed to be going all right, she was having a good time and all that, then suddenly things took a sharp turn.
Dierdre (I'm going to name names here because I'm sure no one in my regular group of non-online friends are members here) starts buying me beers. That's all well and good, someone wants to buy me a drink, I'll drink it. I don't look a gift horse in the mouth. After about 3 beers, suddenly she starts to try to kiss me. After the first try when I politely shyed away, she was more forceful grabbing me and shoving her tongue in my mouth and stuff. I tried to take the nice guy route and tell her that this isn't the time or the place for that kind of thing, and then she plops down on my lap and I had to forcefully tell her to stop. After this she keeps pawing at me for a bit, and I told her straight up that I'm not going to play her game and sit around and listen to her make fun of my friend while she tries to get it on with me. So I shoved her off and told her that she needed to quit, then of course came the crying and blabbering and blah blah blah.
I've seen that all before, so it pretty much didn't phase me at all, and I walked right out the door before I could get sucked into it any more, because I could tell for sure that a big ugly situation was about to unfold. It really sucks when someone else's idiocy or need for constant approval and love and affection gets in the way of my having a good time. I still have trouble imagining how Andy dated this girl for so long, although she does seem to be pretty naughty, that's not worth all of the stress and pissed-offness that would come along with it. I also don't find her the least bit attractive.
Of course, after all that I needed a drink or six, so I walked a few blocks down to the Tavern, and while I was having a PBR pounder ($2, you can't go wrong), the bartender, who's probably not only the best bartender I know, but also very cool and a very very sexy girl invites me to come see this Led Zeppelin tribute band at the bar right by her house on saturday, I told her that I'm hesitant to do that because its out of cab territory and I'm not taking any risks driving. So what's she say? She just invites me to stay at her house and offers to drive me to and from the bar.
I think I'm going to have to marry her. hahahahahahaha
So yeah, that was my night, the first time I went out on a weeknight in a long time, and holy shit was it crazy (well, the first part at least).
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lol
the second part sounds abt right tho!
go have fun!
xx