As I move through my 20's having been single for all but maybe 3 weeks of my life I ask myself what I give up in order to truly be myself. I have only ever caught the eye of mothers and women with children whom I assume have been in some bad relationship or endured some less then perfect experience. Other then that I have had a friend or 4 have to re-evaluate their relationship after I lived with them. Single women just don't seem to put any stock in me. I feel like I live my life very confident with a smile on almost 24/7. As I reflect I look to the quieter more content me.

Is it because I am happy/content that it's so hard to find someone who fits in my life?