First off - I'm pissed I missed the SGNY party. How was it, for those of you lucky enough to attend? And for Pete's Sake - let's have another one - this time on a Saturday. 
So, I'm going to open up a big can of worms here, but it's irking me, so I'm going for it.
What's a bisexual (a REAL bisexual, not one of those trendy ones) to do when she's in a comitted relationship? I have a boy. He's the first one I've been serious with for about a year and a half. The single life was very good to me, and it even though a relationship is clearly what I want and need right now, it was tough at first for me to accept the lifestyle that goes along with that. So the boy knows I'm bi, and he's cool with it. But here's the problem. There are times (like NOW) that I really crave women. I'm happy in the relationship, but let's be honest - there are certain biological factors that prevent him from being everything I crave ALWAYS. I know he'd let me get it on with a lady, but I also know he'd probably not be thrilled about it. So as much as I want it, my conscience gets the best of me. Oh - and he's not down for a threesome, either.
So what to do? Am I being selfish? Should I suck it up? Is this something that passes? I care about him a lot, and breaking up wouldn't be an option - if that's what it came down to, the choice would be simple. I'd love any advice you guys are willing to offer up...HELP!!
So, I'm going to open up a big can of worms here, but it's irking me, so I'm going for it.
What's a bisexual (a REAL bisexual, not one of those trendy ones) to do when she's in a comitted relationship? I have a boy. He's the first one I've been serious with for about a year and a half. The single life was very good to me, and it even though a relationship is clearly what I want and need right now, it was tough at first for me to accept the lifestyle that goes along with that. So the boy knows I'm bi, and he's cool with it. But here's the problem. There are times (like NOW) that I really crave women. I'm happy in the relationship, but let's be honest - there are certain biological factors that prevent him from being everything I crave ALWAYS. I know he'd let me get it on with a lady, but I also know he'd probably not be thrilled about it. So as much as I want it, my conscience gets the best of me. Oh - and he's not down for a threesome, either.
So what to do? Am I being selfish? Should I suck it up? Is this something that passes? I care about him a lot, and breaking up wouldn't be an option - if that's what it came down to, the choice would be simple. I'd love any advice you guys are willing to offer up...HELP!!
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sheesh.
dibs schmibs.