once you've been in a relationship for awhile(different for everyone) you begin to loose the essence of you. well at least thats what happened to me. i'm offically back...and i haven't felt this good in a long ass time. i still get the ooo your blahblahblah's ex girlfriend and it bothers me but shit happens and thats how some people may find a common link to you.or they may have met me when i was with (we'll just call him) blahblahblah and thats how they identifiy me...after three years probably less i was his shadow. no longer the crazy happy giggley me. more like the very unhappy over weight angry at the world for no reason forgot how blue the sky was me i see the difference i remember me i like me with out blah blah blah. i will never let this happen agian. i lost my friends. i missed out on alot. don't get me wrong i loved him i truely did but he broke me. i wasn't allowed to talk or see a certain amount of my friends because he would have a bad feeling about them or he didn't trust them or he had a bad feeling about them. i will no longer give that up. this is me. crazy, outlandish, say random things that may make most uncomfortable, HAPPY, all smiles, giggly me
you can take her or leave her...
just give her a chance first
you can take her or leave her...
just give her a chance first
Just kinda set guidelines for a relationship... set aside two days (after work) that are dedicated to your friends. You said you were his shadow for the past 3 years... almost that exact phrase was used in Love Don't Cost a Thing... I just watched it yesterday, not a bad movie... now that I think about it... that guidelines thing sounds really tacky, maybe it's just the wording *shrug*