bobtheflower

I love your dreams for the future. If I had the balls to dream I think mine would be similar- except for me, work in the home involves cooking, growing my own food, fostering animals, writing... Things like that. Domesticity is good for my soul. But I also crave new experiences and so getting out of town would be important. Gosh, now I am feeling all wistful...

You know, I am not sure that I am any more authentically myself here than I am in the rest of my life- I feel like the way I am here is a reaction to reality, it's responsive to how things are going for me and where I'm at. Sometimes it's just a little self indulgence, and not always the good kind. I would like to think that I am not at core as obsessed with myself as I may seem to be here, in writing. Perhaps living a life so utterly devoted to caring for others leaves me with this need for self-centeredness. Either way, bob, I am glad you have this place and it's working for you. You always struck me as a guy who could use an excuse to unwind. And, as I'm sure you know, sharing this space with you has been delightful for me. You bring the eroticism to the sex.

Exactly!? What *can* I do?? It's like they use their powers for evil

And thanks. Still can't ID me, but it indicates I am at least real...

Real > unreal

And I seriously doubt there are redheads using their powers in anyway that is not ultimately in your best interests... so evil might be stretching it

Only work, but I have awesome friends - near and far! I chatted with one for a long time last night, just gabbing'. It's nice sometimes

It also is relaxing, work makes me be 'nice', but still a boss. I 'fired' three people today (sorta?) - and felt a bit off about it. They are awful at the job, and we have no time to deal with them. Still - I feel shitty for having to do it. Nobody likes being fired.

That does sound tough The good news is they are probably going to run into opportunities now that they are much better suited for, which is great!.

I have been a little reclusive lately, and as you may have noticed it gets to my head

But it's true, at least I have squirrel. The hotness exists only in your (apparently creative) imagination, but I'm ok with that. I'll take it

Congratulations!
That is a great place to be. Uneasy, but so full of promise.
Another question worth asking is if she is happy.

Also, you might enjoy reading Casper. I have been

Look at you, filling in your profile. Like a boss.

Haha - yes

Sometimes it's just nice to do things with someone Sharing the things you enjoy, you know. I admire your hot yoga skills- I have never tried it, I'm a scared of the suffocating feeling.

You should try it once, though I do understand your trepidation. The first few times I tried it I probably pushed myself too hard. You need to go slow the first few times, and drink something like a Gatorade while in it. I use water to splash myself when I feel like I am getting too hot

Of course

I think you are in t he right, it's probably better not to rock that boat. No good can really come of it (not for you anyway). Maybe one day he will change his mind!

A girl can dream

That would depend on the person entirely... but as a general rule, anything responsive to sensation. The more responsive the better. So, everything from hands to backs to necks- anywhere, really. I think I have a favorite spot for every partner based entirely on their unique reactions to the stimuli I provide.
Buuut in terms of more superficial attraction... probably the line that follows from the waist down over the swell of a woman's hips. And for men, probably stature, followed by the tender spot above the clavicle, where it slopes down from a nice strong neck. Desire is complicated.

Indeed it is.

Seeing people naked is fun! I haven't done nearly enough of that lately. Either way, I would say go for it, just make your intentions clear and be honest and throw in lots of compliments

You should do more of that then. Then tell us about it.

/fun