So after going for a walk/coffee with the ex, I find myself struggling to remember the reasons I had to break up with her. Despite how much I still care about her and love her, I know that I would ultimately be unhappy if we were to try and work it out. Do people really change? It's not that she was a terrible person, I loved (love) her to bits it was her baggage and issues that I couldn't deal with anymore. I can't be her super hero 24/7 fuck, even superman got to play Clark Kent when he needed a break. She was a little too unstable for me and had no one else to help. I can't be best friend, boyfriend, parent, therapist and life coach all at the same time all the time. Am I being selfish? Is it selfish to dump a girl you love because she's burning you out? It was a two year relationship the thought of another 50 years was unthinkable... Sorry baby, I still love you :(
