So I recently got back together with my girlfriend after 5 months apart and things have been going great until this week. No matter what I do I’ve been upsetting her. We’ve had discussions about how we feel and figured that would help us out and to no avail. She clearly wants a future with me cause she hasn’t fully shunned me away. But I feel I’ve ran out of ideas to try and I’ve been giving her space but I feel we’re drifting apart again and I don’t want to lose her or her son again. She has an 8 year old son and I love the kid to death which is one of the main reasons I want to make it work. Any advice would be greatly appreciated especially from a females perspective.
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wichitak:
A piece of advice from someone who has been with a person for 8 years but has spent time apart: you need to talk. Openly. Talk about everything that hurts and what bothers. I don't know how the reconciliation process went, but for me, things only started working again when I managed to be really honest about my feelings. Some things took a long time to resolve, others not ... we are still dealing with some things. But having a relationship is like that, right? Sometimes you are tired and you end up taking it out on the person you know who likes you, because you understand that he will not leave you. Sometimes we don't think much about how we are doing with others too. Just talk. If you think she is out of patience, sometimes being open about it can be enough. Otherwise, I hope everything works out. I don't know how things are there, but in my country we are all inside the house, and we ended up getting more stressed because of that.
francy:
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