Looking for advice

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So I recently got back together with my girlfriend after 5 months apart and things have been going great until this week. No matter what I do I’ve been upsetting her. We’ve had discussions about how we feel and figured that would help us out and to no avail. She clearly wants a future with me cause she hasn’t fully shunned me away. But I...
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wichitak:
A piece of advice from someone who has been with a person for 8 years but has spent time apart: you need to talk. Openly. Talk about everything that hurts and what bothers. I don't know how the reconciliation process went, but for me, things only started working again when I managed to be really honest about my feelings. Some things took a long time to resolve, others not ... we are still dealing with some things. But having a relationship is like that, right? Sometimes you are tired and you end up taking it out on the person you know who likes you, because you understand that he will not leave you. Sometimes we don't think much about how we are doing with others too. Just talk. If you think she is out of patience, sometimes being open about it can be enough. Otherwise, I hope everything works out. I don't know how things are there, but in my country we are all inside the house, and we ended up getting more stressed because of that.
francy:
💖💖💖💖

Could use some advice

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Two years ago my mom passed away on September 25th and it was the hardest thing I’ve been through. So the past couple of weeks videos and pictures I took have been popping up in my Facebook memories. I’ve been really emotional lately and I’ve been turning to my girlfriend for comfort but apparently I’m overwhelming her and it’s putting a strain on our relationship....
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weedfarmer:
Yes I have some good advice for you. Take your mother, some flowers. To the cemetery, and spend some time with your mother. Sit down and talk about how much you love and miss her. It helps me so much and I visit the cemetery every chance I get.
bigmero:
Thank you I’ll do that!

No one can love a monster.

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I don’t know why I bother asking girls out. It always ends the same. I’m just going to give up some people aren’t meant to find someone to love.

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bigmero:
@rambo thank you for your kind words I appreciate it.
bigmero:
@sova it sucks so much. The worst part about it is that she said yes to a date then changed her mind a couple days later. This happens to me way too often I hate it.

Thursday

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I’m not a big guy. I’m not a menacing guy. I’m not an intimidating guy. I may look that way, but just spend two seconds talking to me, and you know that’s not who I am.

dianalark:
the exterior is always very deceptive. only after talking with a person you can judge him.
bigmero:
@dianalark Exactly! The problem with the world is everyone judges others before taking a chance to talk to the person. I’ve always believed in this “judge not by a persons appearance but by their character”.

Monster among men

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I get asked a lot why I like to dress up as Jason voorhees 1. I really enjoy the Friday the 13th series. 2. I like to dress up in coustumes. The real reason though is I can connect with Jason cause like him I was an outcast that got bullied. As I got older it got worse I got and still get rejected by...
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