bigfloppy

sounds good

Hey, just read a post you left in Quinne's Journal and thought I would come check you out. Reading through the rest of your journal I can see that you have mentioned the 'girlfriend doesn't know' thing before.

Well, I don't know if I can help, but I do know that honesty is the best policy and when I found out my boyfriend had a membership on this site, I was like "You bastard... why didn't you tell me so I could USE YOUR ACCOUNT instead of paying for my own"... He he he, so it was out and now we realise that we don't have to keep our porn/naked/pin-up sites a secret. We have a whole bunch of them in our favourites links and share with each other any new stuff we find the other may be interested in.

It's part of the human condition, and if you fess up to her, then at least if she isn't interested herself, she knows you aren't going behind her back (which to a chick is worse)... I would much rather come home to my guy looking at porn and know about it, but if I didn't like it say "Hey I'm here now, turn that off" than come home to find him quickly closing windows and deleting his surfing history trying to hide it. All females should realise that their man is going to look at porn/naked chicks etc, and the sooner they come to terms with it the better. Even better still....join in and get involved... hell yeah!!! It all comes down to honesty and if your honest about it, whether she likes it (porn/naked chicks) or not, atleast your not hiding it and you can then work on a compromise that keeps you both happy.

This way there is no nasty surprises and you won't find yourself having to back out of a corner when she sees all your naughty links and folders full of

Anyway, I hope this helps... you can always send her my way and I'll have a chat to her, calm her down a little

Good Luck

[Edited on Jun 16, 2005 2:08PM]