Hell-o my lovelies. I am sorry I have been so MIA lately, had a rough few days, but after some serious melodrama & getting in trouble at work...THE BITCH IS BACK. Slightly dented, but back.
I am proud of myself. I stood up to a bully today.
I have an appointment to register my daughter for kindergarten & had a really awesome sit down talk with the ex-hubby. Sometimes I do miss him. But he is a bully too.
So.
What have we learned today kids?
"No boy is worth crying over & the one who is won't make you cry"
"No one can hurt you without your permission"
SOOOOOO. Protocol for moving forward. Thinking perhaps I need to have my friends come up with a screening system for all future romantical would-be suitors. Since I seem to be a magnet for bullies, and admittedly very guillible (mostly because I want to believe the best in people), and able to rationalize insanely bad behavior...I really think I am no longer qualified to screen my own potential bf's. I mean obviously there has to be SOMETHING there, but I need a bully filter.
I'm sitting here with the "Seven signs you are dating a manipulator" that my therapist gave the "yep that's accurate" rubber stamp on. He managed to go thru alll SEVEN signs today. 4 of em consecutively.
I am proud of myself. I stood up to a bully today.
I have an appointment to register my daughter for kindergarten & had a really awesome sit down talk with the ex-hubby. Sometimes I do miss him. But he is a bully too.
So.
What have we learned today kids?
"No boy is worth crying over & the one who is won't make you cry"
"No one can hurt you without your permission"
SOOOOOO. Protocol for moving forward. Thinking perhaps I need to have my friends come up with a screening system for all future romantical would-be suitors. Since I seem to be a magnet for bullies, and admittedly very guillible (mostly because I want to believe the best in people), and able to rationalize insanely bad behavior...I really think I am no longer qualified to screen my own potential bf's. I mean obviously there has to be SOMETHING there, but I need a bully filter.
I'm sitting here with the "Seven signs you are dating a manipulator" that my therapist gave the "yep that's accurate" rubber stamp on. He managed to go thru alll SEVEN signs today. 4 of em consecutively.
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chefdaddy:
It sucks to attract assholes. You should definitely have your friends screen your dates. I am glad your are feeling up.
vinci_word:
Standing up for rights,,against bullies is the way to go!! Stay on the uppie up up! <3
