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Personally I wouldn't want a discussion about how shitty I was in bed! Try making some suggestions while your in the act, "I'd love it if you'd..." or "Why don't we...".

Or be more aggressive if he can handle it. I love it when a women tells me what she wants me to do or moves my hands or head to where she wants. I was with a woman who liked her hair pulled and another who liked to be bit on her back. Hard. But if they didn't say I wouldn't know. But I was also with a woman who was just bossy and wanted to direct every single move and that was no fun at all.

How the sex was before the marriage?

My marriage didn't work from the begining. We both tried but after two kids and twelve years she finally called it quits because I never would. It was hard, especially on the kids, but life eventually went on and everyone got over it. Now I couldn't be happier.

I say try and make it work but don't waste twelve years if deep down you know it really was a mistake.