It has been an insanely crazy month! Right now I am going through my photos, so I will post a much better blog post about my trip to North Carolina once I get re-settled. But what I will say is it was the most amazing trip, a super romantic get away for my boyfriend and I to celebrate 10 years together, and just the most...
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aurorah:
Sounds awesome ;)
darlingvixen:
I love Asheville, such a great town and beautiful scenery. 

A Least We Dig Each Other...

Went out with my bestie last night to see Incubus (again) and as always, it was fantastic.

Incubus is one of those bands that I hold very near and dear to my heart. Brandon Boyd got me through some tough times and was the soundtrack to some of the best times. Seeing them live always makes my heart flutter
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sammax93:
Of the bands I've seen, Korn, Slipknot, Nine Inch Nails and Foo Fighters are the ones that always move me the most. Every time my closest friends and I go, they always create cherished memories. Foo Fighters holds the top spot since they were my first concert and the last time I saw them, I was in the pit and there was a total lunar eclipse happening during the show!
bayta:
@sammax93 that is awesome! Im not a huge NIN fan but i saw them live a couple years ago and they put on an awesome show.

Once every couple of months i am hit out of the blue with an anxiety attack. I feel my anxiety every day, in achy muscles, overthinking, headaches... but these anxiety attacks just suck the life out of me and i usually never see them coming. I had one tonight. Home alone around 6pm. Just hanging out watching Star Trek DS9. Pretty typical day off. I...
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btflday777:
Please look up and try Autogenic Training, Progressive Relaxation, in general meditation and deep breathing. Your body will learn how to relax quickly. Regular physical exercise is helping too. Always be well.
softnsweet:
Physical exercise and perhaps some CBT to help with negative thoughts etc.

Fall Be Kind has been getting a love since my new set came out, so I went back and remembered how much i love it <3


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onespeed:
<3
lewolf:
SO VERY BEAUTIFUL!!!  ♥♥♥♥♥

Feeling lazy about getting up and getting dressed.

Would rather be back at the beach....

<3B


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umike747:
❤️🔥
onespeed:
sexy!!

it has been 8 solid years since my last vacation of any kind. Hell, in the past 8 years, the closest thing i've had to a vacation is staying at my sister's house for a couple nights on the cape. But the last time I went anywhere farther than MA for even a night was when I went to Montreal after graduating high...
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bayta:
Thanks @catdad! Me too
softnsweet:
It is a great opportunity to get out of MA and Charleston is a very cool place with a different take on the Civil War and a lot of history.  I think planning trips is overrated. I consider it a vacation just when I cross the sagamore bridge!

I've decided to do some blog homework, since I saw @rambo post the new topic, and it's been on my mind lately.

She asked what's on our summer reading lists, and I admit, sadly, that I am not as much of a reader as I used to be. I did however, just pick up a copy of The Electric Kool Aid Acid...
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softnsweet:
I love the Foundation Trilogy and anything by Haruki Murakami
elaena:
Great!!!!

So I have a bit of a dilemma. This will take a bit of set up before I get to the issue at hand so bear with me a moment while i "set the scene".

About 2 years ago, my boyfriend and I started a savings jar. At the time we had no specific plans for it, but we decided to use it to treat...
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waitformetoturnblue:
What @timjimmy and @catdad said. Delicacy is key without proof, especially since it could be one of two people. Roommate is (probably) the most likely candidate, but without proof, the fact is, you don't *know*. I also endorse the idea of a lockbox. Or, you could do what my brother and his wife do--every couple of weeks, take whatever you've set aside, whether it's just a bunch of change, extra bills--$5s, the stray $10 and $20--and deposit them into a savings account. Actually, what they do is shave off 10% of his paychecks, and whatever her tip money is for the night (she delivers pizzas as extra money twice a week and every other weekend), and they watch it grow. They've put away almost $4000 in the last 7 months since they started doing this in Jan. Just a thought.
wizard0:
Speaking for probably a lot of guys, subtle hints do not work.  I either don't recognize them, or ignore them, because they can be easily mis-interpreted.  How about, "Hey, you know that change jar we had?  A lot of bills are missing from there.  Do you have any idea what might have happened to it?"

I mentioned in last blog that i would share some photos of my flowers

My pansies are my favorite.

Gazinias and Dahlias

Marigolds and Scarlet Bagonias

Snap dragons

And because you made it all the way down here ;)

Beach selfie❤

Until next time!

<3B


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softnsweet:
flowers add to the beauty of our lives, yours are lovely
skisby:
So glad I scrolled! I can barely keep aloe plants alive, ❤️ the pansies!