first loves are such a bitch. people never really get over them. hell...it took me six years to become comfortable with the fact that i would never be with said person again. SIX FUCKING YEARS. how pathetic. i just think that people never really let go of the love they first find. the feeling can never be repeated. its something that you have never experience before, and therefore so amazingly fresh and new. exciting and dreamfilled. you can never compete with first loves. you will always lose.
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It's quite easy to compete with first loves - unless you never allow yourself to move on and get stuck in that miasma of 'it was the first, it has to be the bet' BS.
Love differs from relationship to relationship.
While the first may truly hold some dire significance due to it being utterly original, it does not mean that it'll be the uber-love of your life. At least, not to me.
Yes, I had a first love.
Yes, it formed a lot of who I am today.
Yes, it was delightful.
Yes, the excitement was divine.
But I'm willing to bet that as I grow, learn who I am, and experience life with others as a more balanced, and hopefully more insightful person, that my loves [or preferably; love] will be that much more passionate and thorough.
The excitement of loving someone completely and knowing that you are who you really are, is what truly sounds perfect to me.
What the fuck do I know? I live by myself, with a cat named after a simian.
But I have a dream.
-Scotty