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A split up after such a long time is never easy. However, it seems like it is for the best. I can relate to the "onstantly negative and unhappy". If someone is like that for a very long time, you have to be honest to yourself and acknowledge, that you can't help this person. People who are constantly negative and / or depressive suck in your positive energy like a black hole. And not even light can escape a black hole. For these people, a positive change can come only from within, and friends and spouses can only aid that process. I know what I am talking about, because I was such a negative person for many years. My gf split up with me after several years because she realized that she couldn't help me and that she invested way too much energy. A few years after that, I entered a relationship where she was in a constant downward spiral. And nothing I would say could reach her or change anything. When I realized that, I knew I had to end this relationship for my own sake. Sorry for my jabber. ^_^  Your blog just reminded me of that situations I've been in.

@inshi no I totally agree with you! Thanks for your support it means a lot! :) I am in a much better place no that we are no together!