I went shopping for a boyfriend the other day. I was browsing at personals on CraigsLists and I thought, why not? It's free to post. So I posted an ad. And three photos. And got lots of responses. Most of them from losers, I'm sure. Or men that I was not attracted to. Anyway, my conclusion is that I do not want to shop for boyfriends anymore. Screw it. I've got so much on my plate already that I am just barely being able to handle. I'm still talking to that band about performing and I'm also meeting up with a friend to jam tonight. I'm kind of auditioning, I guess, to see if he's interested in including me in the band he's trying to put together. That and I have three friends I'm not spending enough time with, and work (which has been really odd since my boss left last Friday), and books, and Buddhism, and a body that keeps deteriorating 'cuz I'm eating so badly and not working out. There's so much to do. I don't need my life to get any more complicated. I think I have finally realized that I have enough on my plate. 
desert_monkey:
Wow! Throwin in the towel, huh? I know where you're coming from. I've just realized, over the years, that all the stuff that keeps me so busy is so much more enjoyable if I've got someone really close to me to share it with. It's so awesome to have someone special to share the good times, and help me get over the bad. But, dating really sucks. Gotcha!