I know how you feel. I actually called off my wedding because of petty bullshit when I was planning my wedding. I finally decided that since everyone around could not agree on what was supposed to be MY day that I was not going to get married at all. Thankfully my fiance was okay with it and I think now I am glad I did not. My BF's family can make me want to strangle someone at times too. So if you ever need to vent some more than go right ahead. You will need it!

I guess it's a matter of where the boundaries of the relationship are. Some folks are cool with their wife fooling around with another woman (with the caveat that they get to watch or that the glorious event be videotaped. Or even just described later). Others are of the more serious opinion that "if you're with me, you're with me." In any situation, it's good to try to talk about it first, but in the situation you describe, where the intent is to provide some--let's say clandestine sexxin--that really isn't an option.

If you're gonna do it, try to get her to at least take her husband's temperature. If you're gonna do it anyway, y'know, keep it on the DL.

And, uhh, tape it for me.



Oh and hi, by the way. I'm Myke. Happened to your profile from the PSW group.

yay for new glasses!! my lenses are so scratched i can barely see out of mine...i need new ones too. and did you say you were in vallejo AGAIN?!?! *le sigh*

i still cant' believe you were in vallejo and i didn't know

For a better day, have some chocolates , they will make you feel good .
May even add some passionate feelings , and soothe the hurt.

oh damn, that's horrible!!! that's worse than the time mine were mutulated by a 3 year old!!!

If you turned your life into something you wanted you will attract the people who want the same thing. what makes him worth the trouble? life can always be better.

HELL NO!!! I KNOW I AM NOT HEARING THIS... let me tell you something... if you can make the life that you want and be happy.... go for it... no is going to make you happier than yourself... it is hard i know it... oh and sorry i didn not read this earlier... that is bullshit.... you have to make your life because no one is going to make it for you... as being alone... it will not happen... when your are happy you attach people around you that are happy as well... when you are sadd or depress people will not want to be with you... and you are not ugly so please stop saying that.... trust me... if you lived closer to me i would go out with you in less than a heart beat... so stop saying your are ugly when you are not and go out there and make the life that you want... and if this boyfriend or whatever he is... is not there to support you... drop him like a bad habit and find yourself one that will support you and help you move foward not backwards with it sounds like your are doing... you can love someone greatly but they can still be very bad for you.... don't be one of those that sit there and wonder what if??? be one of the ones that said ... i did it and i did my way on my terms... you got more than that in you... this is coming from a MAN... no man is worth all the trouble and sleepless nights that you are going through and giving up on your happiness.... think about it and think about it hard... is it worth it... is it worth all the regets what YOU will have later on in life???? if you need to talk i am here.... and thank you again for the comment...

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More money is good. Stability is always a good thing to have in a relationship but you have to feel wanted and needed as well. I hope you and E can have what you want in a relationship.

i so know what you mean!! when i got to jersey, my first love picked me up from the airport. and damn, i so miss my summers with him. i often wonder about the different kinds of love and passion, and who you should end up with. i think passion is more important.

thank you for taking the time on my blog yesterday. i know whaty ou mean, maybe they are trying to not be too attached. still kind of sucks though.

i love your new profile pic btw! mmmmmuah

I know what you mean that first love feeling is amazing. By the way thanks for the belated birthday wishes.