allychanchan

I am so sorry, dear. Grandma was up to work today and told me about this (yea, haven't been on the inet)

if you were close, then you have EVERY RIGHT to mourn. ignore those who say you don't.
and you two should be supporting each other! this is a loss for both of you (obviously) and not supporting each other is a good way to keep falling apart.

i heard you were coming up to visit your mom. please call me if you stop by in town, i would love to see you. i think it is good you are spending time with your mom. things that are tragic to us give us such an appreciation for what we've got. just remember to progress and keep moving and getting stronger.

remember, DO NOT feel guilty for grieving, it will only start a long cycle. do your grieving, let it process through you, like it does to every human being, and then move forward with new appreciations for what you still have and happy memories you will always have with you.

love you babe, stay strong.

A tragic story indeed and as stated above "DO NOT feel guilty for grieving" very much so holds true close or not when someone dies it impacts all those around that person even if you personally don't know the person... best wishes and best of luck , hope it all works out for you.

resistance is futile,

-=b