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@franie My burner phone. Lol. I was going to add to this thought that the really important piece of it all is how she feels about me and my desire. It is much harder and requires more time/effort to discern the appropriate way to proceed, where both parties involved are equally represented and respected, but it is ultimately the best and only decent way. Women want to know they are valued and wanted, but they want it in a way that reflects their humanity, their inherent value as feeling beings, and in a manner suited to the situation. I have had women chastise me for not pursuing them more boldly and forthrightly declaring my passion. I usually err on the side of silence, which can deprive both the woman involved and myself of the opportunity to enjoy one another and to partake in the pleasures of mutual desire.  Perhaps it is the way we say it to her and what details we decide to include in that disclosure that is most important. Wow, this coffee is strong... =DD

This makes sense to me. Being respectfully forthright does make things a lot easier when it comes to getting things going with a woman. It usually doesn't work out for me, but it does save time and not end up being a bullet train to nowhere by being coy.