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We met in 1999 and lived together for many years, finally getting married in 2007 because her parents would no longer tolerate us being together without being married. I lived at her parents house with her. She decided she wanted to go to Maui and get married and I did not argue with this.

We had fun, sorta, and also fought ferociously and I felt miserable in my life at the time.

She was beautiful, though, and no matter how much she has hurt me, I will love her forever. Also I can't stand her.

We got back home and bad events just piled on. A year later we went to St John's, VI for our first anniversary. My ex drove an ambulance and her partner for seven years came with us to Maui with her boyfriend. They also loved fighting and drama and broke up in the summer of 2008. He was from Oregon and suddenly picked up and left for a few months. She kept calling and pestering him and he came back. On a whim they decided to go with us on our anniversary trip and get married.

Here is my ex-wife taking photos

It was only the four of us on the beach that morning and it was chaotic. Within a month of returning home, on a whim they decided to all move to Oregon.

This is my bird enjoying the eight hour drive. I went along because what the fuck else could I do.
I was constantly the extra in this group.

I had lined up a job and ended up the only one working the entire time we lived together, the four of us. We lasted a year and permanently damaged everything we had built. We were all miserable and started to hate each other. They got divorced, we got divorced and now none of us speak to each other.

I finally feel like I am finding closure with all the bullshit and I am thankful. I discovered how to draw and how to write a song only after coming to Oregon. I will never regret the move north because I don't think I would have ever realized who I truly am, otherwise.