Things have gotten a little better with the boy... He wants more bf/gf time yet I don't think he really understands what that means...such as if we acted like boyfriend/ girlfriend he would have to start doing his own laundry, doing the dishes, picking up his stuff, finding his own socks, folding his own clothes, etc. He really is kinda spoiled... but so am I. Its just how our relationship naturally progressed, we just moved fast... because it always felt right. I don't know. But in an attempt to help keep us spicy n him interested in me. I started trying to do things I did back then, like sending him racing txts n pics at work. Giving more back massages, n more touching in general. And playing with his ears/ hair which drive him crazy... sadly it just feels like he is taking it in and not trying at all. Whatever, boy drama is too much for this girl right now!!!!
On another note, I have lost 9 lbs!!! Yeah for me!
I started a new pilates routine today and I love it, even though it doesn't
feel likes its very challenging? Im still excited tho!!!
Just took a shower see....
On another note, I have lost 9 lbs!!! Yeah for me!
I started a new pilates routine today and I love it, even though it doesn't
feel likes its very challenging? Im still excited tho!!!
Just took a shower see....
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You are just so gorgeous!
I am not crushing on you or anything:.blush:
I am also sry to hear that boy drama is stressing you out hun..Dont let it get you down. Keep that pretty face of yours up.
Here is my two cents ( which you prolly know, but this is just support, that you have the right state of mind..)
Just make sure you keep communicating with him everything you told us ,and dont hold anything back. He wants the responsiblity of being your lover, he needs to act like it. As you know relationships are work, not just a way to take a advantage of someone, so you get taking care of. On that note, I think he has/is taking advantage of you, because you do all the wifey things. If he wants to be Bf/Gf , like you said, you need to be able to rely on him to do his own chores...your not his wife and he needs to allow you not to act like one. I dont know the whole story but it sounds like you are trying and he really isnt. He wants things handed to him. Tell him that. Tell him exactly how you feel. Also I have learned from expierence, never accuse him of doing things to hurt you, rather say "I FEEL like you are hurting me when..."
Anyway, best of luck sweetheart.
ok, I had a response here, but was distracted by the fresh-from-the-shower pics...
damn distraction! damn good distraction, but even so...!
now - to find my mind again...