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Wednesday Apr 06, 2005

Apr 6, 2005
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K so I'm over feeling sorry for myself. I can only get into it for a couple days than I have to give it up.

If what I'm thinking is manifesting itself as my reality, I'd better put the brakes on all these Waaaah thoughts hadn't I?

I always make grand plans and figure that if everything goes right and I do everything I'm supposed to, my life will turn out perfect all at once. But my angel food cake keeps falling in the oven and I keep getting depressed that I have to start from scratch all over again.

How lame is that? Instead I should be grateful that I have an unending supply of ingredients with which to start over from scratch every time I'm not completely satisfied.

I'm learning more and more that if I'm unhappy it's because I'm holding myself in that unhappy place.

I'm going to let go of this thought pattern of "I'll be happy/everything will be perfect when..."

What to replace it with?
likwid_todd:
be a realist, like me. shit happens from time to time. it's not the first time and probably won't be the last. identify the problem, deal with it, and move on. work to avoid the same problem in the future. everybody takes their lumps in one form or another. it's all about how you deal with it.

"improvise, adapt, overcome"

it works for me anyway.

ARRR!!!
Apr 6, 2005
keltdruid:
I don't know, babe. I have been here for almost 9 months, and I still do not what to replace it with.
Apr 6, 2005

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