My man and I have been fighting a LOT since we moved into our place.
I wonder (HOPE) if it's just the stress of rarely seeing each other and when we do we're discussing errands and running errands and eating and cleaning and falling asleep...?
Coz GOSH.
I love him so much and I am SICK of feeling like we are on opposite teams when just a couple weeks ago we were runnin smoothly like clockwork!
Today the issue was getting me to/from work.
He wants me to ride to and from with my homie, coz he doesn't like wasting gas (totally understand; I'm paying for it too) and time (understandable; it takes two hours out of his day)
BUT this means I have to ride both ways on the crappiest freeway in SD, the one that takes a half hour longer to get to the same place as all the other freeways that also have traffic.
AND my homie isn't always on time leaving home OR work, which means sometimes I will be late, and sometimes I will not even get to his house til 5:30 (I get off at 4) and then have to wait for Shawn and won't get home til 6-6:30!
That's a big deal to me. When I get home I am exhausted and just want to eat and go to bed.
But if I ride home the other way with my Honey, I get home around 5 and still have a bit of pep to maybe work out and get some other stuff done too before I collapse. Plus we can get errands done on the way home (a lot of places close at five or six) that way.
So we got into a BIG effin fight about this this morning. We didn't speak the whole way to work and I didn't even say goodbye to him.
Pretty pathetic behavior between two soul mates, eh?
All I know is, we've GOT find a way to make our personal goals/priorites mesh, and establish some sort of a routine together, ASAP.
I wonder (HOPE) if it's just the stress of rarely seeing each other and when we do we're discussing errands and running errands and eating and cleaning and falling asleep...?
Coz GOSH.
I love him so much and I am SICK of feeling like we are on opposite teams when just a couple weeks ago we were runnin smoothly like clockwork!
Today the issue was getting me to/from work.
He wants me to ride to and from with my homie, coz he doesn't like wasting gas (totally understand; I'm paying for it too) and time (understandable; it takes two hours out of his day)
BUT this means I have to ride both ways on the crappiest freeway in SD, the one that takes a half hour longer to get to the same place as all the other freeways that also have traffic.
AND my homie isn't always on time leaving home OR work, which means sometimes I will be late, and sometimes I will not even get to his house til 5:30 (I get off at 4) and then have to wait for Shawn and won't get home til 6-6:30!
That's a big deal to me. When I get home I am exhausted and just want to eat and go to bed.
But if I ride home the other way with my Honey, I get home around 5 and still have a bit of pep to maybe work out and get some other stuff done too before I collapse. Plus we can get errands done on the way home (a lot of places close at five or six) that way.
So we got into a BIG effin fight about this this morning. We didn't speak the whole way to work and I didn't even say goodbye to him.
Pretty pathetic behavior between two soul mates, eh?
All I know is, we've GOT find a way to make our personal goals/priorites mesh, and establish some sort of a routine together, ASAP.
Heh. Have a good weekend! xoxox
I hope you can figure something out with your man. I think the "just keep swimming" advice could do wonders for you guys too.