Thank you for the love on my set! Definitely made me blush, you're so stunning <33 

selahh:

Of course, babe! Can't wait to see you on the front page <3

From azalea

thank you so much for the love you showed  me! youre lovely <3 xoxoxo

selahh:

of course! <3

thank you for taking time to comment on my set, love<3 i really appreciate your support. i hope you're feeling better now.. everything is fixable. you seem to be a lovely person, i'm sure life will treat you as you deserve it. besides february fucks as all every year for no reason.

selahh:

Of course! You're gorgeous! And thanks, you're right, February is a shit month. Over now though! :)

The Coping Train

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Do you ever feel like your feelings are going to eat up all of your insides? Sometimes feelings are so bad that they're physically painful. I'm like the little engine that could, I think I can get over this, I think I can, I think I can. But it's so hard to get up and over that hill.

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magneticflux:

just join a class or follow the programs that you could likely find on your cable television's menu somewhere.  therapy is fine but it's basically a waste of time in my view.  if you are intelligent at all therapy will basically be ineffective.  therapy offers generic modes and paradigms for fitting it.  but fitting generically is unsatisfying.  find a community, or people who urge you to challenge yourself, while at the same time respecting you.  a yoga class could be a great place to start with this.  the internet is actually also a good place to mesh with people who share similar interests who may not necessarily be right there within your already entrenched social circle.   emotion pertains to the structure of the body and its dynamic adequation to it's being in an environment.  structure doesnt determine being-human, especially when wielding the force of Reason which is capable of functional re-articulations of structures.  to make this point less abstract, consider one who has the narrative of fear as something that "propels them to avoid confrontations or threats", compared to one who has the narrative of fear as something that "signals their chance to rise to a challenge which must be overcome".  while emotion seems to have a particular content as an experience, apart from physiological effects, they do not.  it is a matter of being condition to articulate a certain narratives and modes of thinking deploying certain concepts that conjoin to the physiology of the emotion and tinge it with a certain signification.  these signification are never fixed despite however deeply entrenched they may be.  the main point is the conversion of risk or fear or remembrance of loss into the articulation of possibility or of how you can become better.  the problem with anxiety is two fold.  it strangles you in the loop of feedback of an oscillation between was is lost in the past and what from the past will recur within the future.  anxiety can be paralyzing unless you short circuit.  number 1: the past is literally just a specter.  number 2: your memory of yourself from the past is also a specter.  the difference between ghosts and spirits is the following one: a ghost is haunted by spectrality as what is lost to temporal becoming.  spirit is the seizing of spectrality towards the possibility of becoming what one is not.  good luck.

marco113:

I think the idea of doing a physical activity is the best. It really helps you to cope with your problems. That was at least what I was doing until a couple of weeks ago while dealing with some personal problems. Lately my situation became so overwhelming that I started smoking but that's probably a bad idea.

Oh Hi, I'm The Birthday Girl!

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Hey guys!

So I'm taking a short break from setting up for my birthday party to write this. We've got two kinds of cupcakes, s'mores, and jello shots. Jolly Rancher flavored jello shots, at that! I'm really excited, I haven't thrown a party in ages and ages. Hopefully all will go well. Eek!

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zgrat:

Happy Birthday gorgeous! 🎂

jedoro:

Happy birthday!

Blog of the week- What inspired you to become a Suicide Girl?

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So, I was bad, and missed the last themed blog >.< Bad Selahh! But I've got this week covered!

I found out about SG my Sophomore year in high school from this super punk girl in my photo class. She was a babe and I had a little bit of a crush on her, but she was a senior, so, ya know, never gonna happen...
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laykafiction:

Haha such a nice dad!!

robertbluesman:

badass works... just being you works too ;)