It has been mentioned to me that some people think my commentary in some groups is too sexually explicit.
Well.
*looks around at all the naked chicks, the forums about sexaholics, about anal sex, cockworshiping, masturbation, BDSM, voyurism, exhibitionism, oral sex, etc etc etc etc etc,...*
Duh
Put a hedonist in an environment where he can discuss things freely... things are going to get explicit...
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Well.
*looks around at all the naked chicks, the forums about sexaholics, about anal sex, cockworshiping, masturbation, BDSM, voyurism, exhibitionism, oral sex, etc etc etc etc etc,...*
Duh
Put a hedonist in an environment where he can discuss things freely... things are going to get explicit...
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A phone call on Vic's drive home, became a Skype video conversation which lasted till 2:50am.
In short, fears were cast aside in bits and pieces, stories were told, and emotion and desire was shared without any fear of reprisal.
I am constantly amazed at his powers of perception, and his youthful mixture of (justified) pride, and humility.
After a little fantasy sharing Vic fell...
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In short, fears were cast aside in bits and pieces, stories were told, and emotion and desire was shared without any fear of reprisal.
I am constantly amazed at his powers of perception, and his youthful mixture of (justified) pride, and humility.
After a little fantasy sharing Vic fell...
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Ha, so a local swingers club is doing a fetish night and quite a few of the local kinksters are going to attend, and I want to go... there is nothing better than showing vanilla folk who think they are risque that they haven't seen anything yet.
But all my female friends and loves are indisposed in one fashion or another. And this swingers club...
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But all my female friends and loves are indisposed in one fashion or another. And this swingers club...
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amira:
if only I was in Texas...
New love is an awesome feeling. This past weekend I was able to make that connection, this time with Vic ( see his folder in my pictures).
Vic is the female to male transsexual that I played with New Years Eve. We had such good chemistry that night that we both felt it was necessary to get to know each other better. And during that...
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Vic is the female to male transsexual that I played with New Years Eve. We had such good chemistry that night that we both felt it was necessary to get to know each other better. And during that...
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dhd_no_pants:
I'm glad for you!
Believe it or not I still get that silly new love feel for the hubby, even after almost 9 years.
Believe it or not I still get that silly new love feel for the hubby, even after almost 9 years.
sailorfrank:
I believe it. That feeling can be forever if you let it. With or without new loves who come along.
The fact of the matter is, that as much as I enjoy my loves being in love with other people. As much as I want them to experience all the good that they can. I do wish I could have someone in my life who I can be with and who can be with me as much as we can stand one another.
I'm tired...
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I'm tired...
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__rosemary__:
Can I watch her beg too?
I'm sorry I screwed up your birthday Frank. I wanted to be there.
I'm sorry I screwed up your birthday Frank. I wanted to be there.
sailorfrank:
Sure you can watch her beg.
But you didn't screw up my birthday love, I just missed having you there to share in the fun with me. There is a big difference.
But you didn't screw up my birthday love, I just missed having you there to share in the fun with me. There is a big difference.
Just spent a lovely evening with Vic, the trans boi from NYE. Shooting pool, talking, getting to know one another... a nice date.
There is a lot to say on the subject, but I'm not really capable of coherently phrasing it all. But needless to say it mirrors all the other occasions where I have first in depth getting to know one another experiences with...
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There is a lot to say on the subject, but I'm not really capable of coherently phrasing it all. But needless to say it mirrors all the other occasions where I have first in depth getting to know one another experiences with...
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valcapone:
I think the decision to be polygamous or monogamous really depends on the person you're with. I've done both, and I don't like the assumption of monogamy that occurs in most relationships, but when you're with somebody you really love, at least for me, I find I don't WANT to be in multiple relationships. I don't think one person can ever be everything you want or need, but that's why you have various kinds of relationships in your life: friends, family, lovers, etc. I guess it all depends on how much importance you place on physical expressions of love, because that's the part that usually makes things messy. Right now, I value my monogamous relationship with my boyfriend more than sleeping with a variety of other people. If it ever becomes an issue where I am more and more tempted by other partners, then we'd have to discuss. But for now, I really don't want or need anyone else in my love life, and I like being monogamous.
__rosemary__:
sigh...
He is talking about not limiting yourself and making needless rules.
It's fine to love only one peron and have sex with only one person, but why make a rule that tells you to shut out other possiblilities?? Why upset yourself or your partner with the term cheating? Why put yourself through a guilt trip if you end up falling in love with a close friend?
And it's not about valuing your relationship more than sleeping with multiple people, because poly is not about sleeping around. It's about being free, you shouldn't have to choose between your partner and someone else. Why not be open to both?
He is talking about not limiting yourself and making needless rules.
It's fine to love only one peron and have sex with only one person, but why make a rule that tells you to shut out other possiblilities?? Why upset yourself or your partner with the term cheating? Why put yourself through a guilt trip if you end up falling in love with a close friend?
And it's not about valuing your relationship more than sleeping with multiple people, because poly is not about sleeping around. It's about being free, you shouldn't have to choose between your partner and someone else. Why not be open to both?
I had a fantastic evening at the Houston EROS party, they always make my birthdays such wonderful events.
Didn't get any New Years kisses, which blew, but I did later get to watch a fantastic needle play/cutting scene with one of my favorite practitioners of the art working over a cute little trans boy named Vic.
Later after chatting a bit while watching another needle...
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Didn't get any New Years kisses, which blew, but I did later get to watch a fantastic needle play/cutting scene with one of my favorite practitioners of the art working over a cute little trans boy named Vic.
Later after chatting a bit while watching another needle...
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jenniferjoy___:
now this I would have loved to see!!!! definitely seems more my style than sailing. Happy Birthday!
sailorfrank:
Thanks you guys.
Jenna, nothing says that sailing is the only activity that can happen while out on the boat you know.
Jenna, nothing says that sailing is the only activity that can happen while out on the boat you know.
I've requested that SG add Star Wars RPG to the list of groups available.
This group will focus on Roleplaying experiences in the Star Wars EU in a variety of media, from table top games to Star Wars Galaxies.
This group will focus on Roleplaying experiences in the Star Wars EU in a variety of media, from table top games to Star Wars Galaxies.
cyberiouse:
cool idea? yes ... will it get approved... doubtfull .. sorry just being honest.
happy holidays man
happy holidays man
sailorfrank:
Yea it was denied...
No reason other than the standard form letter.
No reason other than the standard form letter.
Huh, It's official I've been published. My short story "The Cheerleader" has been published in the book Blood N Sex.
Purchase it here: BloodNSex Book
How's about them apples.
In other news, I set sail today for a three hour trip in Galveston bay solo. With the exception of quite high winds... which made single handing the sails quite difficult everything went quite well. The...
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Purchase it here: BloodNSex Book
How's about them apples.
In other news, I set sail today for a three hour trip in Galveston bay solo. With the exception of quite high winds... which made single handing the sails quite difficult everything went quite well. The...
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eala:
Congratulations! 
I love that story
I love that story
Tabula Rasa can sail again.
The headstay is now fixed, and my headsail is all rolled up and ready to let go in the wind.
I'm itching to take the boat out. If anyone wants to come sailing let me know.
Frank
The headstay is now fixed, and my headsail is all rolled up and ready to let go in the wind.
I'm itching to take the boat out. If anyone wants to come sailing let me know.
Frank
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sailorfrank:
Cabin wenches are always welcome aboard my vessel. So long as you didn't dress up like she was in the last movie it would be all good.
kittykatgone:
No was thinking more the first movie...;-)
Inappropriate Management Rant.
In light of some shit at work going on I'm going to present to everyone some rules that should be adhered to if you want to keep employees.
Rule 1: If you under budget for personel for the year don't lay off people for two weeks to come in under budget.
Rule 2: Don't make year end bonuses for office workers dependent...
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In light of some shit at work going on I'm going to present to everyone some rules that should be adhered to if you want to keep employees.
Rule 1: If you under budget for personel for the year don't lay off people for two weeks to come in under budget.
Rule 2: Don't make year end bonuses for office workers dependent...
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sailorfrank:
Yes indeed it's official, I'm off the boat today and won't be back at work for a month.
The crew change coordinator is willing to kick someone else off their hitch early to get me back to work next week, but I'm not about to go take someone else's money from them.
The crew change coordinator is willing to kick someone else off their hitch early to get me back to work next week, but I'm not about to go take someone else's money from them.
kittykatgone:
Hey sweetness,
Thanks for accepting my friends request..
How's you?
Kat xxxx
Thanks for accepting my friends request..
How's you?
Kat xxxx
Inappropriate Management Rant.
In light of some shit at work going on I'm going to present to everyone some rules that should be adhered to if you want to keep employees.
Rule 1: If you under budget for personel for the year don't lay off people for two weeks to come in under budget.
Rule 2: Don't make year end bonuses for office workers dependent...
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In light of some shit at work going on I'm going to present to everyone some rules that should be adhered to if you want to keep employees.
Rule 1: If you under budget for personel for the year don't lay off people for two weeks to come in under budget.
Rule 2: Don't make year end bonuses for office workers dependent...
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"Yes, there are groups for those things. That's where those things are appropriate. It would be inappropriate for me to go into the cockworshiping group and start a thread about the philosophy of Ayn Rand if it has nothing to do with cockworship. That conversation is appropriate in the book or philosophy group.
The Houston group is not a place to solicit dates or girls to shoot photosets with. "
It definitely is not.
And if you were in the New York regional group you would have been kicked out.
There are a SG photogs hopefuls group for shooting a set.
And I am sure there are places to solicit dates on here, i.e. Boards-I am single. Or how about match.coM?
In your regional group is not the place for either and that is majorally creepy! I am sure that it makes many people in the group feel very uncomfortable. And I am sure that is not your intent, but put yourself in someone else's shoes. How would you feel if you were on a site where you are showing your vunerable self and felt that someone was trying to take advantage of that?