What happens when the person you truly are is the antithesis of the person you want to be, all the things you've ever wanted to do with your life but haven't been doing fall farther and farther from your grasp, and you can no longer muster up the will or desire to do anything about it? Do you just go on, day after...
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Apparently the head of Friedrich Wilhelm Murnau was stolen from his tomb...

http://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-33534109

The desire I have to respect another person's life choices and wish them the best is conflicting heavily right now with my desire to respect my beliefs and disagreement of those life choices. I want to see people happy, and don't want to buzz kill them with my presence, but I don't want to change the way I act to accommodate a...
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chadiousxvi:
I did take that person as a whole, only from my perspective, that person changed. We are not the people we once were, and the two people who became friends years ago are both just as dead as the other. As to tough love... no, it won't work. The decisions are being supported and accepted by all the other friends, I'd just be the odd one out being a dick, and I don't want that. Their life, their choices. We were fond of each other once, I'd rather just step back and let the friendship wither than watch it burn down with fire. At least that way, I can be the "Whatever happened to that guy? He was cool back when we used to hang out" rather than the "Fuck that asshole, I'm ashamed I was ever friends with him in the first place!" In this way, no negativity is caused, and good memories remain good memories.
chadiousxvi:
And yes, it was Beetlejuice :)

When I signed on to SG for the first time, this was a very different place. Ginebra, a Suicide Girl from South America, was my first site friend and welcomed me here. I was put into the new members group, and met a large quantity of new and fascinating people. My presence here grew, and so did my relationships with my new SG friends.

When...
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chadiousxvi:
Well, we'll see what the next redesign will be like. I preferred the whole 'mutual friends' thing over the 'follower and following' thing, because the latter just seems to create an environment where certain people have a million followers, but follow nobody, and everyone else is following a million people, but being followed by no one. 
chadiousxvi:
That... and I could hit the enter key with my phone to make a space... not submit my unfinished post... Oh well, we adapt, or we go extinct. It's obvious everyone else appears to be the scurrying rodents that will become mammals, adapting and filling the new niches, and the rest of the dinosaurs are dead. For the in-betweeners like us, it's either because a twittering bird or disappear I guess.