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i saw your comment on happycherries page and it caught my eye...i know all to well about surgeries..my 1st one was when i was 18 and i have had 3 since...i have endometriosis which is complicated and really no cure til u hit menopause..no real research out there..so i feel for u and how u look and feel..just when i was better i had another one..i was vowed to get in shape and 1 year and 6 months ago i was in a car accident...and was messed up i could nt use my arm and my neck was hurting...so i gained a bit of weight and now im trying to get all my good s back...so hang in there and i wish u a speedy recovery...good thoughts i say...im sending good vibes now...peace

oh by the way my husband and i have been dating since we were 13 and weve been married 4 years 5 in oct so if the medical thing and the illness were an issue i would nt have him...hes serious about us...it goes with u and who u are...so stay positive and dont overthink it he likes u for u...

I just say I hate SG cos nobody else does.

I am a rebel.

Offhand they may look like roses, but they're tulips, which are my faves.

YAY! You like to sing??!!! I love singing! It's one of the ways that I cope with things too. Just try listening to the music really loud till you feel ok to sing again. That might help a little.

Try not to worry to much about the sex stuff right now. Of course it's going to hurt. You're right not to want to. If this guy doesn't want to wait around untill you're well enough than he's not good enough for you.

Please try to have fun but to take care of yourself!

I scare myself when I sing. Have you ever seen someone scare themself when they snore, I think I make that same face. You sing, I'll keep quiet.

Awesome , awesome news. Friends and potential love. Sounds like things are on the up and up all the way around. Your also back at work, that rocks. Its hard to keep the good peeps down for too long.

Right back atchya

Your medical condition is kind of fascenating, from my professional side. On the personal, i am sorry to hear that things are not going well. I have on-going problems with my jaw, and understand the chronic pain and discomfort that genetics can cause. Well if there is anything i can do to help just let me know.

In the mean time are you able to get around any easier yet? Sometimes i think recovery from anything is easier as long as you can comfortably do the little things in life.

Ah friendship drama, if only friendships were effortless. But sometimes they take work. I dont know what to tell ya really. it sounds like you just gotta trust your feelings.

Well, Hope that all things get better for you.

Here are some (hugs) and

Maybe they will help!

how are you feeling today?

As far as healing time goes, ill have an awnser for you tomorrow.

Good call with the friendship, besides when she wants to start having you be a biogger part in her life, she will get in touch with you.

Hope monday went well!

Catch up w/ you later.

I just had to cut a friend loose. It was the third time in the ten years I have known him. I'll take two years off from associating with him, then he'll find (ooze?) his way back into my social circle. It's hard putting up with someone so selfish.

I see you have befriended mariothemonkey and happycherries. They're good people.

yah, I know you are a redhead You just need to put some more pics up..hehe

Hope you had a good New Years

you think im irresistible? that's sweet!

I am sorry to hear you had such a rough time over the holidays. Hopefully the worst part is over with. Its great to hear you have such a good roomate, good friends are hard to find. Its funny how in the times of need we find out who our true family is. May the new year bring happier times and with a person who seems as nice as you, I am sure it will. Get well soon.

Heya, agian. Got your journal post. Thanks for stopping by. I replied to you via my jourmal, cause im a newbie Is it just me..... or does holiday TV just suck ? Bored to tears here.

I'm glad to hear from you!! I'm happy that you're ok Did they take care of the problem this time?? How are you feeling? I know a lot of questions...You gonna take it easy for New Years? I hope this year is one of magik hope love and fulfilling dreams

thank you for your very nice comment. it helps. can't help but feeling ugly though. not having "normal" forms, etc. could go on and on, but...reading about your friedn...i hope she'll get better soon. sounds really scary. *sending you nice dreams and a hug*

glad you are doing good hon. why would you wanna live my life? it's the most boring life one could live....but since it's mine, i deal with it.

i watch that show occasionally...it's hilarious

I travel through many circles. I am the link that keeps the chain together. Last night, dinner with hairdressers. Today, lunch with two pimps from Anchorage and their mother, Miss Rita. Tomorrow, who knows. Gotta keep it interesting.

I am a man of infinite patience and understanding, but my mother can really push my buttons.

Hang in there. I've had several close friends that suffered from serious chronic pain for years. They were entirely different in nature, but eventually all have gotten it under control, two by surgery, one by slowly learning advanced pain management techniques. It sounds like you made the right choice as far as going out is concerned. Hang in there!

I consider myself a liberated guy friend, when guys hit on my female friends I usually give them the thumbs up, if they buy me a drink I might even spill some inside information that may aid them in the seduction. Ofcourse, if the creep/dick/asshole meter goes off I can be very protective.
I had thought about doing a tuck job and applying to be an SG, but if they turned you down they might burn me at the stake.