I think a lot depends on what you are attracted to. Anecdotally from here there seem to be a number of girls (not all) that are into an older guy, and a number of guys (not all) who are into a younger woman. If that’s your thing, you have the potential for something that is far more explosive than any other partnership you are ever likely to build. Sometimes I think we are discussing as if this is some form of a choice, a switch you can turn on and off. I don’t think that’s right. You’ll find the right people and it will be fun. You can make most things work if you want to.

It all depends on the two people involved. Two consenting adults can make that decision together, because love cares about the person, not their age.