zyra_____

Suggestions... Avoid him if you still feel like you want him. You can go from relationship to friend, but you need to clear the board first. As long as you want him, you can't be his friend. It's not fair to him or to you. Could you honestly listen to him if he had girl trouble? So stay clear and feel better. Take some time for yourself. Secondly, don't find someone to help you get over it (though flings rarely hurt, as long as no feelings are involved). Relationship jumping is dangerous (physically and psychologically), and the best way to feel better is to feel better with yourself, not with someone else. No one takes the time to be single for a while anymore, and it's a really healthy thing. You really have to be happy by yourself before you can be happy with someone else. Sure, it's lonely, but it builds strength. It's alright to have feelings for people... Just don't be ruled by them. You are the most important thing, you need to take care of yourself, cause you are the only person that you absolutely have to live with for the rest of your life.

Gainesville can be fun if you have the right people around...try coming and visiting us here in Orlando sometime.