So, what a strange evening last night was.
Although I'm not going to knock it, it was just a bit
I've joined a divorced/seperated club. Here me out here, the area where I live is quiet and anything for a laugh is good by me. So, anyway, I went to a new members meeting last nite. I really thought there was going to be some decent women there, but do you think there were? Nooooo! The meeting wasn't too far away from where I live so I walked there, by 10pm I wanted to get away, so as in true newspaper reporter style ..."I made my excuses and left" 
When I got home last nite Rachel and I started texting, it'd been fun and it was really nice to hear from her. I have a lot of feelings for her and I think she has for me. However, I've also been in touch with someone else and we're going out next thursday (Her name's Sammie!) When I told Rachel I had this date she sent me a text saying her stomach had sunk and she felt bad. She (Rachel) has been treated bad by the guys she's previously been with, when I met her we had fun, laughs and she's a good looking woman. Can I just point out that I'm not a guy to make a woman's life difficult, I just want to find a partner who I can love and trust because everybody has feelings. Even me! (Although I'm not a woman!)
I also like women to be faithful so I can trust them (I have way too many trust issues!) With Rachel we'd decided not to go ahead any further with a relationship, hence I decided to persue looking for a partner, hence, Sammie. Myself and Rachel have said we'll take things slow and see what happens, as I say I have feelings for her and if things did work out she's be the perfect person (even with five kids!)
So here's where you guys come into play. Do I tell Sammie that our date is now off? Or do I go ahead and tell Rachel my date with Sammie is still on? If I tell Sammie that our date is off and Rachel doesn't work out, I'm on a loser and the trust that I'd developed with Rachel will further dent my already dented trust issues. This I don't want .... hmmm!
OR! Do I go ahead with what I want to do and whatever happens, happens? (Is this far more logical?) In my mind it's logical but I hate hurting people.
Other than that the day today has been great, work has been good and all is fine with the world. Tomorrow I'm at a funeral
..... Take Care ....
Although I'm not going to knock it, it was just a bit
I've joined a divorced/seperated club. Here me out here, the area where I live is quiet and anything for a laugh is good by me. So, anyway, I went to a new members meeting last nite. I really thought there was going to be some decent women there, but do you think there were? Nooooo! The meeting wasn't too far away from where I live so I walked there, by 10pm I wanted to get away, so as in true newspaper reporter style ..."I made my excuses and left"
When I got home last nite Rachel and I started texting, it'd been fun and it was really nice to hear from her. I have a lot of feelings for her and I think she has for me. However, I've also been in touch with someone else and we're going out next thursday (Her name's Sammie!) When I told Rachel I had this date she sent me a text saying her stomach had sunk and she felt bad. She (Rachel) has been treated bad by the guys she's previously been with, when I met her we had fun, laughs and she's a good looking woman. Can I just point out that I'm not a guy to make a woman's life difficult, I just want to find a partner who I can love and trust because everybody has feelings. Even me! (Although I'm not a woman!)
I also like women to be faithful so I can trust them (I have way too many trust issues!) With Rachel we'd decided not to go ahead any further with a relationship, hence I decided to persue looking for a partner, hence, Sammie. Myself and Rachel have said we'll take things slow and see what happens, as I say I have feelings for her and if things did work out she's be the perfect person (even with five kids!)
So here's where you guys come into play. Do I tell Sammie that our date is now off? Or do I go ahead and tell Rachel my date with Sammie is still on? If I tell Sammie that our date is off and Rachel doesn't work out, I'm on a loser and the trust that I'd developed with Rachel will further dent my already dented trust issues. This I don't want .... hmmm!
OR! Do I go ahead with what I want to do and whatever happens, happens? (Is this far more logical?) In my mind it's logical but I hate hurting people.
Other than that the day today has been great, work has been good and all is fine with the world. Tomorrow I'm at a funeral
..... Take Care ....
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go out with sammie. rachel and you have no real committment to each other. don't tell rachel about the one date. worry about telling her if you and sammie have a good time out together. if you have a good time, great, then tell rachel. but if you don't, then no harm is done. good luck hun