Friday May 07, 2010

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I came acrossed an old friend on facebook yesterday and sent him a friend request. He must have been online becuse it got aproved almost right away. While I was looking at his profile page the little IM screen poped up and it was him. So we started to catch up when I decovered that he is gay and that he and his boyfriend live together. Well this blew me away and left me feeling a little weird. I need to stop here and say that I dont care one way or the other if a person is gay straight or whatever. I dont want to know any more about his sex life then I do yours. But he and I were roomates and then we ran into each other in the military and even fought in some of the same fox holes and I never would've guessed. Now this is the reason I wrote is not to bash my friend but to maybe get some advice or insight to why this bugged me so much. So if you have a thought or similar experence plese tell me what happened.
madi:
I could see why that would feel weird. Cause you didn't know what he thought of you back then. Knowing a persons orientation is important, so you can have a feeling for your relationship. So you know how he thinks of you and vise versa.
On another note what you said about changing... I gained 130 pounds in under a year cause of a thyroid tumor. I was 5'11'' 165lbs now I'm 295. I'm tall so people say I carry it well but, It sucks so bad. I already have fibromyalsia and arthritis and the weight made it 200% worse. I'm diabetic and that alone is something you have to spend all day taking care of. But now I can't go in public with out being so embarrassed I get panic attacks. So I'll never know what you suffer but I suffer my fair share.

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