I have found myself being tired of my present employer. They pay very well and have great benefits but I'm feeling that I've reached a dead-end. It seem the only way really to get somewhere is being on the day shift or kissing ass and it doesn't look like they're going to transfer me to days because I'm more valuable to them at nights at no benefit to me. And I will never kiss ass. So here I am at a cross road. And my family in the middle who I really don't see because I work long hours at night. 