It's silly to me when people say "You are way hotter than so-and-so". Beauty isn't a hierarchy. There's no ultimate level of hotness that's achievable if you just try hard enough, so where you fall on this invisible beauty ladder is irrelevant. Beauty is a sliding spectrum that's so subjective to the viewer that it even changes depending on ones mood. Our society tries to make being attractive into a competition. That's lame. Your beauty does not subtract from my beauty, or vice versa. That's why I like that I look different. So many girls try to achieve societies standards of hotness and they lose themselves in the process. I'm just trying to grow into myself as gracefully as possible, and I'm confident that whatever that ends up looking like will be beautiful to me.