Crazy week of all crazy weeks. One of my very best friends fathers passed away last sunday from leukemia. It wasn't unexpected, but we had thought he would last a good bit longer. Funeral was catholic, I'm not exactly adverse to religion, but lets just say that was way beyond my comfort level. I was in fact, laughing during the mass. which my friend understood, and his dad would have too, so it was all in the spirit of the deceased, but I still felt somewhat bad. Trust me, if you had seen and heard this priest, you would have laughed too.
Then today, I see on facebook that my brothers girlfriend has changed her status to single, not good, so I text him, he didn't know, but he knew they were fighting. so that sucked, while talking to him I learn his ex wife has told him that their son wants to abandon our last name in favor of her new one, since she just recently had yet another shot gun wedding. Now let me ask you, do you imagine a 7 year old would think of that? by himself? I kinda doubt it, but its impossible to prove, now what she did was to tell my brother if he doesn't allow the name change, she'll take him to court and fight for more custody, and all this other crap. Not sure if she can, I kinda doubt that too, but I'm not lawyer, and my brother isn't in the best life situation right now if his girlfriend just dumped him. Hes a great guy, truly, one of the best I know, kind and sincere, and open and loving. He doesn't need this stuff all at once, most especially since he has MS. Not bad, yet, but its there, brooding, waiting. I love my brother, though he can be a pain in the ass, hes still family, and I'd do anything for him, it pains me to see all this happening to him,a nd being unable to help out. hes the older brother, but I've always been the one that kinda had my shit more together. Not currently of course, but in general.
Other drama around me pales in comparison to these two major events, yet still its there floating around. lifes to short to bother with it mostly, and so I won't. My blog is always open to be read by anyone, and I suppose people can judge me how they wish. If you don't actually know me though, trust me, you have no idea who I am. Back to work for an hour, and then the weekend, it was supposed to be free, and fun, not sure what it will be now, but I'm going to make the most of it, and you should too. Lilfe is simply too short not to live it up, do what you want to do, what you have to do to be happy, and forget about the small stuff.
--Z
Then today, I see on facebook that my brothers girlfriend has changed her status to single, not good, so I text him, he didn't know, but he knew they were fighting. so that sucked, while talking to him I learn his ex wife has told him that their son wants to abandon our last name in favor of her new one, since she just recently had yet another shot gun wedding. Now let me ask you, do you imagine a 7 year old would think of that? by himself? I kinda doubt it, but its impossible to prove, now what she did was to tell my brother if he doesn't allow the name change, she'll take him to court and fight for more custody, and all this other crap. Not sure if she can, I kinda doubt that too, but I'm not lawyer, and my brother isn't in the best life situation right now if his girlfriend just dumped him. Hes a great guy, truly, one of the best I know, kind and sincere, and open and loving. He doesn't need this stuff all at once, most especially since he has MS. Not bad, yet, but its there, brooding, waiting. I love my brother, though he can be a pain in the ass, hes still family, and I'd do anything for him, it pains me to see all this happening to him,a nd being unable to help out. hes the older brother, but I've always been the one that kinda had my shit more together. Not currently of course, but in general.
Other drama around me pales in comparison to these two major events, yet still its there floating around. lifes to short to bother with it mostly, and so I won't. My blog is always open to be read by anyone, and I suppose people can judge me how they wish. If you don't actually know me though, trust me, you have no idea who I am. Back to work for an hour, and then the weekend, it was supposed to be free, and fun, not sure what it will be now, but I'm going to make the most of it, and you should too. Lilfe is simply too short not to live it up, do what you want to do, what you have to do to be happy, and forget about the small stuff.
--Z
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